im tired of being single..and i dont seem to be able to find myself a bf.. and i havent friends to ask them to set me up with a guy and ive a profile online but nothing serious worked out..
how do i send the msg that says im available and what should i do to let the guys know i exist? they just dont seem to notice me or overlook me or take me as a friend..no more.
please help..and no silly zmartazz answers!
2006-11-29 03:41:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They best way to let a guy know your available is by not letting them your available. It natuural for people to go after what they think they can't have, so if you a guy feels as though your screaming "i'm sinlge" they are going to think you too available.
Just go on about your life, you never find what your looking for when your looking for it. Continue to go out and meet new people and eventually something will blossom.
Never ever rush something. In due time you will find your bf
2006-11-29 03:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by queenzhottie78 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The way a woman smiles and uses her eyes says a lot to me. I'm not the type to walk up and talk to a woman, I wait for them. She could show up with a piece of cake she made and drop it off, I would bring the plate back. If you want a man and not a boy, be a lady and act like a lady. Then the chats talk, feel out to see if she would be intrested in dinner or movie.
If I get the feeling she would like that, I would have roses delivered to her home or work with an invite.
Men respect ladies, not women who act like tramps.
2006-11-29 11:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by bubbles_grandpa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my wife on match.com. If you try something like that, you can be confident that the people you meet will likely be relationship minded. As for your real life encounters, you could ask a guy out. I know it isn't traditional, but it would be a way to let a guy know you like him and are interested right from the start. I, for one, would be flattered if a girl asked me out. Best of luck to you.
2006-11-29 11:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, how are you with others? are you friendly? do you initiate the conversation? what do you like to do? the reasons for the questions is that, you want to ask yourself why? and what is not working about you. once you see what is wrong compares to for friends, then you'll see what you need to do.
2006-11-29 11:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act confident and make sure that you are confident about the way that you look cos if you are not boys will always notice and they may think that you self obsessed and not wanna no. also smiling leadsa long way and always attracts others
gud luck!!!!!
2006-11-29 11:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I knew I would use it myself. I'm sick of being single and still told that I'm beautiful and intelligent. Must be somethign that we do to chase them away you see.
I'll be watching your answers.
2006-11-29 11:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by DolphinLami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hemmm.. i tink u shld changed the picture of ur profile to something more sexy and appealing..
your introduction abt urself shld be more seductive...
try it
gd luck...
2006-11-29 11:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirttttt all the wayyyy!! then they'll tell there friends who will tell there friends and before you know it all of them will know your available and interested!!!
2006-11-29 11:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by ANNA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile alot. it will make you look approachable. make eye contact with a guy and maybe he will come talk to you.
2006-11-29 11:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by cami 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
more girlfriends= more possibilities. (brothers, cousins, friends, etc)
2006-11-29 11:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by Billi Vanilli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋