I actually went to a massage therapy clinic for a light touch 1 hour relaxation massage and Naomi, the massage therapist told me to get undress and lie on my stomach when she returned to the room. So lied nude on top of the sheet and when she came back she didnt say to get draped or anything. Well the first 1/2 hr was great as she was doing a good job and we were casually just talking about things then after a 1/2 hour she told me to turn over. I turned over onto my back and I had a raging erection of 3.5 inches and was leaking a little pre fluid. I thought it was normal to get aroused. Anyway, at first she giggled and then after a minute she just stopped and told me to put on my clothes and she said this was very inappropriate. I apologized like 20 times but she said get dressed and go home. I didnt get a refund or anything. Why didnt she tell me to drape if she had a problem? She was about 21 years old, a pretty girl, so what if I got hard. Who wouldnt? I didnt try to. Was I wrong?
2006-11-29 03:41:12 · 22 answers · asked by eastwood1870 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
She was in fact wrong to do so. It happens that men get aroused very easily. and when that happens she should have just been professional about it. I mean it can be embarrassing for the client.
BUT If you were trying anything sexual with her then she would have the right to end the session. which you say didn't happen. Also you were kinda wrong for not going under the sheets thats just commen sense to do so but since you didn't she should have had told you that you have to go under the sheet. Why would she not and then have you flip over? I don't know but just cause you had an erection she shouldnt had ended the session for a natural human behavior. But next time just leave your underwear on most people do.
2006-11-29 12:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica's advice 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
1. Nothing wrong with having an erection. It is perfectly normal, and I'm sure your therapist has to know this.
However, you did say that she was YOUNG, perhaps she is new at this and wasn't prepared for this yet or perhaps she hasn't experienced this enough to be able to deal with it yet.
2. I agree with the others, she should have had you covered up. The only area that should be exposed is the area that she is working on.
3. Some therapists do have that non-sexual clause, and that's to protect themselves as well.
HOWEVER, BOTH the CLIENT OR THE THERAPIST have the right to terminiate the session at ANY time, especially if they are uncomfortable.
Never know, maybe she was enjoying seeing you naked and then came to her senses and realized that she had to keep it on a professional level and couldn't do it.
For whatever reason, either one of you have the right to terminiate the session. If you signed a form that said 'no refund', well then...
BUT, if you signed a form and it said refunds, or said that partial refunds are given for the remainder of the missed service, then you should have gotten all or some of your money back....
So your question was if it was wrong to get an erection during massage? No, it's not. Perfectly normal. But you can't expect something to happen just because of it!
2006-12-01 16:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by MJ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with getting aroused during a massage session. Of course, as long as that is all it is. If you started grabbing yourself or the therapist, or doing anything on the table, that could be grounds for dismissal. Outside of that, it is a natural response to the relaxing muscles. A few female therapists I've heard say that it means the guy is thinking inappropriately about the therapist. That is nonsense. The question I have for both you and the therapist is, why weren't you under a sheet. That should always be the case! One time I went to a new massage therapist and for whatever reason I got aroused before the massage started. I wasn't daydreaming about the therapist, and I really don't know why it happened. The blanket was tucked so tightly that even though I was draped, she noticed, because she started asking me all these family questions that she doesn't normally ask me. I would have rather her just ignored it and went on with the massage, as most therapists would, but her trying to distract me just made it worse and more uncomfortable. As a therapist, the client probably feels embarrassed enough, don't draw attention to it.
2016-03-13 00:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its pretty normal to get aroused during a massage... a person is rubbing your body with oil for cripe's sake!!
You should speak to the management about the situation and you should be given a refund or a free massage.
There was even a Seinfeld episode where George was worried because he got an erection with a male masseuse!!
2006-11-29 06:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The proper procedure for a RMT is to drape what they are not working on. In addition if a man gets hard they should stop and leave the room which allows him to get in control. While not wanting to embarrass him they will not continue to fuel the fire so to speak. She should not have kicked you out unless you made some sort of comment that was offensive or sexual. It is normal for men and woman to be aroused while getting a massage - but only on the man can you tell. In the future leave your shorts on.
2006-11-29 03:52:46 · answer #5 · answered by ice_princess 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-15 23:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong for getting an erection? no.
wrong for her not telling you to drape a towel over your waist? yes.
erections are caused by blood flow to the penis (corposa cavernosa and spongiosum)
you got aroused by her massaging you. shes hot too and thats why you got 'happy'
as for her giggling it was probably due to the size of it. i wouldnt laugh note verybody is well-endowed (im not and ima guy)
she was wrong for not telling you to have a towel covering your waist. next time she should know better and you might want to see another mt
2006-11-29 04:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by jamz 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
no, but she was...she couldn't take the embarrassment that it caused her...she shouldn't be in the medical field...she was not a professional...she should have asked you to cover your bum from the beginning and when you rolled over the noticeable member wouldn't have been so noticeable...she caused this not you...she's gonna have to learn that in her field of work there can and will be moments of embarrassment, but it should never outweigh her ability to do her job with professionalism...I woulda asked to speak with her supervisor and explained the situation...never allow yourself to be treated in such a manner...believe it or not, she's trained to deal with situations like that...
2006-11-29 04:23:41 · answer #8 · answered by Shannon M 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
LOL...sorry I am laughing....LOL
OOPS!
Well she could have handled it differently, but she was to freaked out to think about that. You probably embarassed her more than yourself....LOL
You should have been a bit more shy and covered yourself up though.
I'm still giggling......poor thing!
You get too many erections....you need to find yourself a lady or seek help! You ask alot of the similiar questions.
2006-11-29 03:45:26 · answer #9 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋
you should've got a refund, erections are normal
2006-11-29 03:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋