I'm interested in women's justification of why they date guys outside their own race, but at the same time will not go with a guy that is shorter than they are. My guess is that a guy from another race makes them look cool and politically correct, but a shorter guy makes them look tall and gawky. Seems very shallow and superficial to me.
2006-11-29 03:36:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good question.....I had never dated outside my race, however. I Had always dated guys much taller than I...being 4'10 its easy, but when I say tall...I seem to have always date 5'11 and higher. Until one day I met this guy on the Internet...he was funny, just an all around great guy.....he said during our phone conversation one night before we met, I am pretty short....I said who cares so am I ....he said I am 5'7. I asked him was that a problem. He said well I did not want to embarrass you.....I felt so bad for him. We had our first date one month after mtg on line, then one year after our first date....I married the man.....he is adorable and treats me like a princess.
To answer your question...there are not many shorter guys than I, but yes I would have.
It is shallow of people to think that way.
I have a bit of since of humor about the height issue.....shorter people are more grounded, so just think of it like that...perhaps you might think of dating women shorter than you.
Take care...just remember...you will find the woman that will treat you like you deserve.
2006-11-29 03:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by samantha H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a preference for me I was with an Asian guy for years and I'm a Latina but my huge turn on for Me is tall men Why not sure just is, but because a guy is a difference race than you and how tall they are has nothing to do with each other plain and simple its a preference thing. Oh I love the way the cultures clash. You live and learn
2006-11-29 03:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT IS NOT TRUE THAT DATING A GUY FROM ANOTHER RACE IS FOR LOOKING COOL AND BEING POLITICALLY CORRECT.It's for the feelings.Maybe this is the reason why girls don't date you for being shorter than them,it's your attitude.You see people in such a bad light.Anyway personally,a taller guy gives me the sense of reassurance,that I can rely on him and fall back on him.Imagine being bigger than your guy,the girls will feel very self conscious,and maybe the shorter guy will not feel so embarassed since society will see him as weaker than the girl?
2006-11-29 03:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by Rin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you cant really put all women in the same category. I have dated guys who were shorter than me, taller than me, of a different race.. all of that dosen't really matter.. it just depends on the people in the relationship and whether or not they click together.
2006-11-29 03:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by gerganer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 08:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is of another race and don't care whether I'm PC or cool as I don't care about another person's opinion of me. Why not let you short ones go to short girls? We are being fair.
My guess is that you have too much time analyzing the wrong things.
2006-11-29 03:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by DolphinLami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just using that as an excuse not to date you. They just don't like you. Plus most women do not like to date someone shorter than them and they are not racist like you are either.
The fact that you even CARE what race they date means that you are a racist.
2006-11-29 03:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy from the other race is taller and race may not have anything to do with how she feels...race is only has importance to racists. And you know that if you are a racist you are breaking the law. You cannot discriminate on the basis of race.
2006-11-29 03:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i believe it is all personal preference...
i personally am attracted to my own race, and one other race, not my own. and i am attracted to tall skinny/muscular build guys.
i have a cousin who will date any race, and doesn't care if a guy is tall, short, skinny, fat...
justification lies within each person individually.
2006-11-29 03:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by **Lil QT** 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One has nothing to do with the other; it's a matter of personal preference and doesn't need to be justified to you or to anyone else.
2006-11-29 03:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋