okay if you trust your boyfriend and say he can go out every saterday with his friends as long as he spends some time with youand is home sunday morn,because he has been staying out all night alot so you just agree on one night.he never really shows you attention,is always in a bad mood,and never wants to do anything with you but watch tv.he tells you he loves you but he doent know why he cant show it,i do EVERYTHING for this guy,cook,clean,iron,wash,wait on him hand and foot.i show him i love him but he CANT show me.who wouldnt think they were cheating am i wrong,he thinks so.i do trust him not to cheat,when we first met,i tryed to date him,he said no he has a gf and he isnt that type.and not to judge a book by the cover.i was impressed.later she broke his heart and cheated,so he left,we have been together ever since.4 yrs now.so what would you think is he or is he just wanting to drink with his "homies".
2006-11-29 03:21:33 · 21 answers · asked by joannluna1974 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is having a back up apart from you.
When there is a crowd its all messed up,the one involved is unknown to this fact.This guy could be having several affairs and lying about and sometimes its difficult to confess the truth,they display mood swings and frustrations.
You are doing his housekeeping,who wouldn't want it done free.
You have in fact spoiled him to his extent,that he has become laziness in helping you in the houshold chores.
How many gals he must be repeating the same old stories behind your back do you know,and when he is going out with his mates do you know what he must be chatting with them.A good free housemaid with liabilities.
Well when does a women cheat with her man think logically at this point of your life is he justifying you and is he caring and loving-No is your answer,why waste time.
The rest is for you to think about.
As far as ur bf has told you about his ex gf,tomorow he can repeat the same story about you to another gal.
U got to think about it.
2006-11-29 03:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is but how can you be sure, has he come home smelling different or something, do you have any proof. He might be going through some things and not want to tell you, or there is that he could be cheating, try to find some clues b ut don't make it seem too obvious he might not here's an idea, say that you have to go out of town for about a week and leave for maybe 3 days and come back without telling him and walk in on him and if he's alone her's not cheating.
2006-11-29 03:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by Tia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, you are waiting hand and foot on this "boy" and he would rather be out all night on saturday until sunday morning? I smell a rat. Stop being a cow he is milking for free and if he doesn't want to show it or "doesn't know why he can't" then show him the door. You can do much better than allowing a man to use you as a welcome mat, sex when HE wants it, and clean, pressed clothes and home for the little bit of him he "shares" with you. Stop letting yourself be treated like a 3rd class citizen. If you "allow" this then you are getting the benefit of your bargain, otherwise, I would bag, tag and set this fool to the curb doublequick and not think twice about the loser. Get out there and find a REAL MAN! Good luck!
2006-11-29 03:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you hold your answer. He is totally cheating on you. I respect the fact tht you let him hang out with his friends, but he's playin you stupid. I believe that you need to give space in a relationship, but there has to be a limit. You sound like a Smart Person!!!! Dont waste your time with this loser. Your at home worried about the fact the he's cheating on you, while he parties it up. There has to be a happy medium and there's not. Move on. Remember that your were fine before you meet him. Sometimes, we as females get attached to the way that they made us feel for a while. But, why should you just settle for that one moment, when their are plenty of men that willing to treat you like the Queen you are. No man is worth the things your subjecting yourself too!!!! Good Luck
2006-11-29 03:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by sheriff groupie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun from the sounds of it he is getting bored with the relationship you have been giving him everything so he sees no need to do anything, I'm not sayin he is cheating but I am sayin cut back on the royal treatment and see how it goes but honestly I think he has just grown apart from you but isnt willing to give up being taken care of by you. If his ex cheated maybe she got tired of the neglect and found someone who was treating her right (not sayin it was the right choice to cheat) but sometimes things happen and feelings change so really you need to look into yourself and allow your heart and mind to tell you what it wants and needs. Like Beyonce's new song "Irreplaceable" says "dont ever think your irreplaceable" and that is how he is seeing it. Good Luck hun and I hope everything turns out ok..
2006-11-29 03:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by shell b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is with only you why would he have to stay out all night. My husband goes out without me and we both cherish the time with friends. We have never spent a night without the other. If he isn't in your bed he is in someones. Think of yourself mentally, emotionally, physically and your health. Over obsessing can run a toll on your body. If you suspect let go with no regret. Even if he hasn't cheated you will from now on always wonder every time he leaves the house. That is no way to live. In a nut shell... leave that spoiled brats ***!
2006-11-29 03:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by lilmsmooody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the sound of his last relationship he isn't the cheating type but being in the same routine does get boring and he might be tired the night after what you should do is do something that isn't in your normal routine such as going out together on a saturday and he can go out with his mates on a sunday or try and make him tired in the morning so he will want to stay with you in the afternoon
hope this helps
2006-11-29 03:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by Sammy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey in case you have already got data he's cheating ("So i think of my bf is cheating doing the internet ingredient I do have data, yet he hides his "cookies" temp data which could hint what you're doing on line.. ") why might you choose to proceed torturing your self searching for extra data? basically kick him to the cut back noone merits to be cheated on. i comprehend its much less complicated suggested than achieved because of the fact i'm particular you adore him, yet love your self extra. No guy is ever worth your tears.
2016-12-14 08:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like dr phil says, " you can tell what the boys going to do tomorrow by seeing what he did yesterday", meaning that if he wouldn't cheat on his last girlfriend then that's a really good sign. of course there is a first time for everything. you've obviously been honest with him. i would start going out with the girls one night a week and see how he likes wondering what's you've been up to. if anything, show up where he says he'll be on one of those nights he's out with the guys, take a girlfriend along with you, and tell him you thought i'd be fun if you all hung out. hopefully you won't be "catching" him doing anything, but at least it would put your mind at rest. good luck!!
2006-11-29 03:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by digity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all when it is your boyfriend it is your opinion to judge a book by his cover. I would suggest you telling him you are not comfortable with him staying out late or if you really think he is cheating I would spy (it is ok) and find out what he is really doing behind your back. It is not fair for you to have to always worry about him cheating and if you can not trust him is he really worth your time?
2006-11-29 03:26:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋