Iam 15 yrs. old an im in this relationship with a 19 yr. old. We've been dating for 2 yrs. now. He is way to much experienced in the sexual lifestyle.Iam no virgin (i;ve only done it once). My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but i've told myself i wasn't doing it again till I was at least 17.But im afraid if i don't do it to him he'll do it to somebody else,if not now.We have something kinda good besides arguments and fighting.
2006-11-29 03:12:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him honestly that you dont wanna sex up until you are 17.Hope he understand and respect your decision,if he doesnt dump him.You desereve someone better.
2006-11-29 03:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready and you have given yourself a goal (17) he should understand that. He might not like it, but he should accept it because he cares about you. If he doesn't understand that it is important to you to wait, then you need to tell him how important it is. If he does go somewhere else for sex then not having sex with him was the right thing. If he really cares about you, he will wait no matter what. Someone that really loves you will understand and not keep pressuring you to do something so important and special if you are not ready. Bravo young lady. I know this is hard, expecially if that means he breaks up with you. You have to stay true to yourself. After all, he may be gone at some point. You will be your own friend for the rest of your life. Good luck sweetie.
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2016-12-29 16:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you already know the answer to this one and you just need some positive reinforcement: DISMISS HIM YESTERDAY!!!
if he can't respect your decisions and you two fight and argue, then why are you still with him? trust me, when you turn 19, you will see that this guy is a total jerk for pressuring you into having sex and for fighting with you. you deserve much more from a boy/man and much less drama in all of your relationships. just dismiss that dude...like, ASAP!
2006-11-29 03:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by iPROMISE[♥] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u think he'll leave u for that and get someone else then hes a piece of **** and u should dump him. If he doesn't respect u then all he wants is a piece of *** and thats all it ever will be sorry dump him
2006-11-29 03:16:12 · answer #5 · answered by babyblue1512000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple answer. You've made a decision. Stick to it. If he wants to be with you, he will understand and respect it and wait for you. If not, you know what he really was after.
2006-11-29 03:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by randyken 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to him that you are not quite ready to do it. Tell him you want to wait til you're 17.
2006-11-29 03:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by Crazy K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a child, he is an adult - therefore, trying to have sex with you NOW makes him a child molester or worse a paedophile...
Let him go elsewhere, you should wait until you are an adult...
2006-11-29 03:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is to old for you.. get a clue.. he wants your booty and not you.. laugh at him an tell him to go away
2006-11-29 03:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by alwaysthinking 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him for someone whose more flexible.
2006-11-29 03:15:06 · answer #10 · answered by talk_to_the_hand!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋