I am not with anyone now but i long to be ....I dont know what to do about this..Maybe i am too forward with what iwant when i am with a man..But it seems that they dont mind the conversation about children..I so desperately want children and i am still pathetically single at thirty thee..Why do i always dismally fail when i am with someone and he is not opposed to the suggestion and no matter how many try to concieve with me i still dont get pregnant..I no i am not in fertile..
2006-11-29 03:09:31 · 8 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
i conceived my son at 33 yrs old and i had tried for years to get pregnant( with my husband then w/my fiance). i was not tryin to get pregnant when it happened! so i can only say that if it is in God's plans for you to be a mommy then it is gonna happen when he decides not you!!!!! i do suggest that you find someone you want to spend forever with and then try for baby. i am a single parent w/no help except financially and it is the hardest thing i have ever attempted in my life!! you definitely want help in this! so relax and enjoy dating people are babies in their 40's no adays!!!
2006-11-29 03:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lori C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some married people have the problem of getting pregnant. I don't know with you, but how many times do you have sex in a week? With different men? You sure some of them have not had a vasectomy? Or are you on pills? Ask your gynecologist. Try having sex on those days that you are fertile and not during other days.
Incidentally, I still believe that having children is for married couples...
2006-11-29 03:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by vercast 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Since you seem to want children so desperately I think you will make a great mother. You don't seem to need a man in your life, you just seem to need a child. Therefore I suggest that since theres so many children in the world that need a mother and a good home, you should adopt. A solution that will solve your problem and will give a child a good home. Yes, it's a complicated process, but boy is it worth it. :)
2006-11-29 03:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by tarababy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 Men are not trying to conceive with you, they are having sex with you.
#2 No matter how much you want a child, do not lower your self worth to sleeping with men who act like they are interested in children. You are worth more then that.
#3 Stop looking at men as babymakers and start looking at men who have morals and qualities you want in a man. Look for a man who will respect you! Look for a man who would be a loving dad, a good dad and a present dad to your child....Then see where things go from there.
I hope you find a good man who loves you and someday you both have beautiful children together.
2006-11-29 03:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by Angie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know you're not infertile? Consistently attempting to conceive and failing *is* a fertility problem. Just because you ovulate and have a uterus doesn't mean you're not infertile. There are about 100 reasons women can't conceive, many of them treatable - but if you are consistently trying to conceive and cannot, then you are classified as having fertility problems. See a doctor.
2006-11-29 03:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by tagi_65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find the right person try to get some help in the form of fertility supplements, there are some natural ones. Have him take them too. Also become acquainted with your menstrual cycle and ovulation to help you know when you are most fertile.
Good Luck :)
2006-11-29 03:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by Olga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would focus on finding the man - and not bring up the children until the relationship is at that stage so they would'nt be scared away.
There are other options you can choose without a man.
2006-11-29 03:15:38 · answer #7 · answered by stephanie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should pray for it bcos it's powerful. God is the solution.
2006-11-29 03:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by dj 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋