Whats the best cure for heartache?

Question

need a good cure for heartache people

Answer 1

To put yourself first and stop worry about the person that hurt you. The only person that you have worry about is your feelings and making yourself whole again. Everyone in life makes choices and you have to deal with them and realize that you can move on and be happy on your own. And like momma always says LIFE is not fair.

It also take alot of time so don't think the pain will go away just stay focused on YOU!
I wish you better days!

Answer 2

Wish I had one .... I'd bottle it and make a million.

Cure? Time, time and more time. I just read your post about cancelling your wedding :o(. Try to think that things work themselves out for the right reasons (even if you can't see that now).

My best friend got married earlier this year. About 2 weeks before the wedding she found out that her fiance had an uncontrollable spending habit and had racked up about £12,000 of debt. She never told me and stupidly went ahead with the wedding. Now, 6 months on she's pregnant, desperately unhappy and not in a position to leave her husband.

I don't know the circumstances behind your situation but I'm sure that something wonderful will come along if you can get through this difficult time. Good luck pet x

Answer 3

Consider being the donor in a heart transplant operation. C'mon, get real. I sincerely doubt that what you have is "heartache". It's not possible unless you have lived at least 40 years to have "heartache". Before then you simply don't have enough of real life experience.
You can be desperately unhappy, crushed by events, and disappointed in everything, but that's not "heartache"

Answer 4

Honestly, this is only a temporary solution, but I found that when I was saddest, I would throw myself into my work (I teach). I can't be sad at work, so I would get my mind off of things all day and actually find myself in a decent mood at some points during the day. But, that only works in the hours that you are at work. The best thing to do is to cry when you need to, spend time with your friends b/c they'll help to cheer you up, laugh when you want to, and try not to dwell on it (as hard as that may be). You'll get better--it takes time, and I know in the meantime you feel like you don't know how to get out of it--but it will get better. I PROMISE!

Answer 5

JESUS, He is the cure for everything you may have a problem with. And guess what? he loves you more than anybody else in this world. He won't cheat on you, stab you in the back, talk bad about you, laugh at you when making mistakes, just to name a few. Consider your soul it wants to be with God. Salvation is the key and Jesus is the door. Open it and see the peace, love, joy, and happiness it will bring. God bless you.

Answer 6

Give yourself some time to grieve. All healing begins with the grieving process.
Make a tribute to the wonderful times you shared.
Share your heartache with a friend whom understands.
When that is all done immerse yourself into something else.
Join a team, a club, become a volunteer; anything so that you don't go back to stage one all over again.

Answer 7

Best cure is keeping busy... Do things, get out and meet people, volunteer, join a club, work out....

If you keep your mind off your heartache, it won't hurt as much... and will slowly go away.

That's MY advice! It's worked many times for me! :) Good luck dear!

Answer 8

The best thing to do is to focus on yourself and take good care of yourself. Take joy in simple things and take one day at a time. Try not to think too much about what everyone will say. Don't dwell on your anger/frustration/depression. Let yourself move through the routine of daily life.

Friends can be a good sounding board and support. Pick just one or two people you can count on, and let your emotions out.

Don't do anything rash or emotional. You will only regret it later.

Good luck to you.

Answer 9

Time heals all wounds, but take as much as you think you need. Keep yourself busy and occupied. Try not to spend time alone, unless you want to. Laughter helps, so rent some funny movies. Before you know it, someone new will walk into your life. I would give you a big hug, but since i can't, here is a cyber hug.

Answer 10

LOL yes while sex may be the best cure however your headache may still come back. Take a reccomended dose if Tylenol and two Advil or ibu. The tylenol will dull the pain and the Advil will reduce the swelling to the nerve causing your headache. If it still persists drink a cup of coffee relax and try to calm yourself. You most likely have high blood pressure. See your doctor if it gets to bad.