there's this guy that i really like. we seldom see each other because of our busy schedules but we do text for hours sometimes. sometimes we just have conversations but sometimes we're flirty with each other. we have an endearment name for each other. we give each other text kisses. he shares his problems with me. he tells me anyone would be lucky to have me. the clincher... he has a girlfriend and they've been together for a long time. so... what's he up to?
2006-11-29 02:29:34 · 29 answers · asked by unicorn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
one of two things
he may like u as a friend and because of his high care of u , u think he loves u
and he may really loves u and dream to be ur boyfriend
2006-11-29 02:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be careful!!!
I'd like to tell you he won't leave his gf for you, but I've seen it happen. The only thing is that usually that old adage about "once a cheater always a cheater" is usually true.
From what you are saying, it sounds like he might sincerely like you, but at the same time he does have a gf! So he is leading you on at the same time.
If you really like this guy just be careful! The second it crosses the line into more than just a flirtation - and he still has a gf!! - then you might have to just walk away from him.
Whatever happens, good luck and guard your heart!
2006-11-29 02:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, you are the third wheel, the cyber partner, you know.
But if you are the one he can come to to talk about problems and stuff, that is a good sign that you can be his personal secret buddy and cyber girl. Now he already has someone, so you need to keep looking for someone unattached too. Respect that he is in a relationship, and realize he would be in trouble with his long term girl if she knew you were kissing him over the phone.
Isn't being a secret friend fun!!!!!!
But who is there to hold you thru the night? Just askin.
2006-11-29 02:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... it's called cheating. Both of you are cheating, behind someone's back. Just remember, if you did actually win him, 9 out of 10 he'll be doing same thing to you very soon. A good rule of thumb is, don't do to other females what you wouldn't want done to you. If all women backed each other up like that there'd be a lot less unhappiness and little children with broken families.
2006-11-29 02:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by Curleygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with talking to and flirting with people of the opposite sex, even if one is taken. i am very much taken, but i have lots of guy friends, some that i am extremely close to. sounds like you have a nice friendship going. don't louse it up by doing that girl thing. you know what girl thing i mean. that whole trying to "define the relationship" and pushing for something you're not going to get. he's not available, plain and simple. if you cannot handle being merely flirty friends, then stop talking to him now. before you ruin a good thing and end up not liking each other anymore.
2006-11-29 02:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In that situation its hard to tell.... He may really like you but the part about him being unavailible is a serious problem. I would just continue to be friends cause from what I have heard just in that is that thats all he is being a little flirty maybe but he hasn't crossed the lines. If you really like him as more than I would still just sit back and be patient. It soulds like you have a great friend in him. Don't lose that!!
2006-11-29 02:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by crazy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on! He is having his cake and eating it and i bet it taste good. Why for the love of god are you putting yourself through this? Would you want a guy that is totally and utterly into you. You, as woman deserve more than what he is giving you right now. You know something his 'busy schedules' are him spending time with his girlfriend. Move on it will be hard but you don't need the hassle.
2006-11-29 02:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by lululu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about what he is up to.It's about what are you up to.He has a woman.Have respect for yourself, in the future do you want your quote on quote man to be flirty with another woman.Knowing that you love him and the two of you have invested some time into your relationship.Suggestion stop looking in other people relationships to get what it is that your obviously lacking.
2006-11-29 02:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi baby i thing that this guy doesnt play with u
as u said he has a girlfriend and i am sure if they will break up firstly he will come to u and will try to go out with u
u shouldnt say him that u like or love him cus he will be sure that there is no problem to be with u just be like friend and no more dont let him to kiss u (lips)or to hug u ....
i gues u like my answer i just know that kind of boys
the same as me bye u can write me cheleken89m@yahoo.com
2006-11-29 02:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's getting moral and emotional support from you, which is something he either needs differently from the way that his girlfriend gives it, or perhaps he isn't getting that from his girlfriend at all. so you have to figure out whether you want to be that other person or if it's worth seeing whether or not he would want you exclusively, and whether or not you want to bring that up or just see whatever it is he is or is not going to do on his own.
2006-11-29 02:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋