How will things change? What can I do to prevent things from becoming boring? I am 29, she is 26. We are going to get married next year.
2006-11-29 02:28:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To all who say to slow down, that wasn't part of the question. Relationships all move at different speeds. This one happens to be faster than my past ones, but that doesn't make it bad. Things are nowhere near being boring.
Also, to the one guy who told me not to be a lazy layabout because I'm not living with mom anymore, I haven't lived home for 11 years. It must be great to be ignorant. Tell me more about it. Thanks to everyone else who gave good answers.
2006-11-29 02:48:28 · update #1
They only thing that will change is that you will see her naked more...
Have fun.
2006-11-29 02:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I will say this, You will learn and find out things about her and her about you living togther , what i mean is thats when you really get to know a person, all thier flaws faults, good and bad, how they really live. So if you think you can deal with that go for it. But honestly take it a little slower especially if you have all these questions. And if you are worried now about preventing bordem you need to think twice about marriage, this should be the fun part of the relationship so bordem shouldn;t be a problem. I'm just in a new relationship of 3 months and bordem is not a issue but I have no urge to move in with my boyfriend. Its still to early for me. All i can say is be resposible, respectful and honest with each other and also keep people out of your business thats were the biggest problem is and also as long as you are finacially stable there shouln't be a prob.
2006-11-29 02:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by Sexy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are flirting with dangerous territory. If you want to marry this girl I would consider taking some more time before moving in with her, Most of the stress on marriages stems from cohabitation. It strains the relationship when things like bills and household work become an issue. Maybe you should get a stronger foundation in your relationship before you move in together or consider getting married.
2006-11-29 02:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by SoonerBorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might try to do your own laundry now that you are leaving home and your mother won't be there to do it for you. You might also try to pick things up and not make a mess and take out the garbage and try to be a human being instead of a layabout slob.
2006-11-29 02:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it might be a little soon too, but i shouldnt be one to comment on that... i think maybe u are concerned when there is no need to be,.. i say just be urself, go with the flow, make sure the load is split evenly, and make sure u both have 'me' time or away time, what ever u want to call it,...
I think it is sweet of you to be thinking of this sort of thing already,.. good luck to you and ur GF!!!
2006-11-29 02:39:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know there is love then....you are not rushing hon...it is all good. This time of living together will help you both to get to know each other better and you will have time to solve any problem there could be afterwards when you guys are already married and that is great!!
2006-11-29 02:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by chinita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be connected to her side all of the time! Try hanging out with your friends alot more and keeping away so that when you guys finally see each other at night you will be so happy to see each other you won't bore yourself!
2006-11-29 02:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by --Br0oklYn-- 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To promote harmony, remember to always put the toilet seat down...you'll be sorry if you don't. If making your girl happy is what makes you the most happy then things will never get boring.
2006-11-29 02:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry Garcia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MY only advice is CLEAN UP AFTER YOURSELF if you want the relationship to work and always always leave the seat down and never invite people over unless she knows ahead of time....
2006-11-29 02:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by smilingontime 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Slow down man, your not that old yet to rush things.
2006-11-29 02:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just my opinion, but I think you are rushing this moving in thing. I moved in with my ex husband after that long, it is too soon! SLOOOWWWW DOWNNNN!
2006-11-29 02:30:17 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋