I was at the movies with my boyfriend (of about a monthish) and he leaned over and started kissing me. I was surprised because I hadn't even been thinking about him doing that. I've never kissed a guy before, and I wasn't even sure how to. I just sorta froze when he was kissing me, so he stoppped, and we continued talking and watching the movie. I talked to him later about it, and he understood that I had just been nervous, and he asked me if he could try to kiss me again next time. I told him tht would be fine. I really do want to kiss how. How do I avoid freezing up?
The things is, I'm still just as nervous, so I know if he tries to kiss me again, I'll just freeze again. I really do want to kiss him. I need advice on how to avoid freezing and how to be more prepared for when he does try to kiss me.
I'm afraid I'll mess up. I've never kissed a guy before, so I'm nervous because it's new. What tips can you give me to help me avoid freezing?
2006-11-29 02:27:05 · 8 answers · asked by CAlifORniABABBAYY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
'Kelly A' is absolutely right.
Don't be scared, take action.
Next time he asks you to a movie, have him come over to your house. Have him sit down in a private place (I assume you are a teenager). Straddle yourself over him and sit down in his lap, facing him. Look him in the eye and say "I want to talk a little more about kissing." Ask him how he likes to be kissed. Then kiss him ... 2 or 3 times ... don't get into a makeout session, just light, fun kissing. Then, get up, smile at him, and go ... "time for a movie?"
Once you've felt a good response both from him and from your own insides with kissing, you'll be fine.
Also, listen to Hall and Oates "Kiss on My List".
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2006-11-29 02:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you must be nervous - but RELAX - just clear out your mind when he tries to kiss you.
Kissing is not a perfection. There are so many ways to do it and not one of them is wrong!
Once you have your first kiss, you will want to do it again and again! Kissing is fun
I would just try and relax and don't think of it as your first kiss...be confident! Good luck!
2006-11-29 02:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by KrisJH24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It take you from surprise but like your said you never ever kissed before, I assure you that asnwerd enchantment him since was your first time He will tried it again, just feel his lips, close your eyes and your heart and your lops will do the rest: You will feel like you are flying. Enjoyed.
2006-11-29 02:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by FallenAngel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him to tell you the best way to kiss, or how he likes to be kissed? That way you can avoid embarrassment of letting him know outright and you will learn how to kiss.
2006-11-29 02:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you said that you have toid him so don't be scared am sure he will take it slow and easy on you and there will be no problems.cheers and have fun just relax and don't be tence.
2006-11-29 02:32:25 · answer #5 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pratice kissing the back of your hand
2006-11-29 02:42:47 · answer #6 · answered by aflyladybug4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you're just going to screw it up again. Maybe you should just let him feel you up.
2006-11-29 02:31:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,If you dont feel comfortable yet tell him,,you will know when you feel it..Trust your instinct..Unless he has green teeth..
2006-11-29 02:36:49 · answer #8 · answered by blcrshr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋