there is this guy he is so cute and sweet we have so much in common. we have known each other since we had orintation for college together. we lost touch but when the semester started we hung out a few times. Then over halloween i took him to a big keg party but i don't drink and he couldn't stand the taste of the beer. that night i got hit with a full can of beer and i left the party cause my leg was killing me. he got a ride back with the girl who gave me a ride. Anyway he hasn't talked to me since, hasnt' returned my calls and finally i sent him a message and asked him what was wrong if i did anything wrong. He told me he was sorry and he was so busy.Then i see him at dinner last night and he told me that his football team season was over and we have more time to hang out. I don't know what would be good to do and how should i tell him that i like him were should we go? and he always shakes my hand. I need a good date to make him like me the same way i like him. Help?
2006-11-29 02:21:42 · 7 answers · asked by facefuceproductions 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only go after him if he seems interested in you. He could have been busy with football, but he may not want to hang out with you. When you got hit with a can of beer (thats horrible!! :( ) did he help you or ask if you were ok? If not then I dont think hes good boyfriend material. Why would you want to be with a guy who doesn't care about your wellbeing and feelings? He shook your hand?? Whats up with that..it seems to be that either he is shy around you or he is not interested in being more than just friends. I would ask him again if he wants to hang out and if he doesnt then move on! If he does, then you can try it again but if all you get is another handshake I would end it. I mean, if this guy was interested in you, he would at least give you a hug and a kiss on the cheek not a handshake! I bet there's plenty more guys who would love to be with you..perhaps you just haven't found them yet. Good luck!
2006-11-29 02:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by SweetieBear20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must first establish a good releation to him. have him befriend you at first, and look for his possible interest to him. If you feel something that shows his interest, then tell him that you want to go out with him. if he goes out with you, just play things cool. Have yourselves fun together and make sure his laughing. (It's Ok for him to think that you're funny because it communicates you're not boring). When youre cudling or flirting together, say this line: "What kind of woman do you respect?" in a serious tone of voiceand face. Trust me, he'll feel attracted to you because he'll think that you're Intelligent, sassy and selective.
At the end of your date, ask, "Will there be a second date?" and he'll think you as a misterious girl he ever met. Oh, by the way, I Hope that you can control yourself. Never say "I Like You" beacuse he'll consider you as a needy woman that cant wait for a relationship, and he'll back off instantly (unless your sure of your self that youre a real attractive woman). Hope you appreciate my answer.
2006-11-29 02:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by Paw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First step: hangout alot but don't act so desperate...no matter how much u like him!
Second thing: Flirt alot without being obvious
third point: go to places in the beginning where you can hang out casually plus talk...e.g beach!
fourth: be interested in what he's interested in...
2006-11-29 02:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by m3! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will desire to take a seat down back and concentration on being your self. Take it slow and shop your expectancies sensible. I transferred from one college to a different and located that it took extra time to get related and experience delicate on the recent college than it did whilst i began out new with others entering college for the 1st time. once you're "new" and maximum others are no longer, it is extra handy to create a undesirable first impact that's complicated to triumph over in case you "attempt too complicated" to slot in and to have each thing %. up as in case you're on the same old college. reality is, your accepted concentration would desire to be on lecturers. I wager that in case you place maximum of your potential into easily transitioning into the educational section, that the different will stick to certainly because of the fact human beings would have extra time to get to appreciate you interior the context of your learn. additionally, extra desirable than relationship, you will continually do terrific with a sturdy social community of adult males and girls who're platonic acquaintances who you may have confidence "have been given your returned." you will locate that adult males you date would desire to come and circulate as you mature, yet sturdy acquaintances final plenty longer.
2016-10-13 08:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a nice resteraunt and tell him there that u like him. And ask him if he feels the same way about u.
2006-11-29 02:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you like him what do you have to lose if you are lucky he might even like you if not you can still be friends
2006-11-29 02:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by thomas h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he found somebody new now you go and do the same thing.
2006-11-29 02:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋