For the ones that read my question yesterday I didn’t tell you and my bf everything about that night. The truth is when I went to the bar that night I knew my ex would be there. I divorced him 7 yrs ago he was a drunk, used drugs and lazy. Ok my female co-worker friend made everything sound so good at the bar, I had to check it out. Yes I dance with my ex and got so drunk to the point I don’t remember everything that night and I did call my ex the next night after my boyfriend and I had dinner and he left.
Someone starting to tell my bf things about that night, he even knows about me calling my ex. I keep lying to my bf about that night. I’m afraid if I tell him the true I will lose him and I will tell you now he’s the best thing that ever came into my life, I know he is I have been married 5 times to trash, my bf is kind, caring and a loving person. WHAT CAN I DO, so I don’t lose him? that’s my question
2006-11-29 02:17:28 · 14 answers · asked by jane d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is terrible to say I done, when you mean I did.
2006-11-29 02:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have been married 5 times. Now your with as you say the best thing that ever happen to you. Then you go out with your ex and don't remember what happen. Now your lying to your boyfriend about that night. You are some piece of work. You deserve what ever happens to you.
2006-11-29 02:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he's awesome? You've been married 5 times....wow. Yes tell him. Relationships are built on trust and honesty. If he finds out later rather than sooner, he's going to be even more mad. You should tell him asap. He'll be mad for sure, but maybe if you're honest with him now, instead of him finding it out on his own, he'll be able to get over it. You shouldn't lie to those that you love. And for God's sake, if your ex is trash... don't go to places you'd see him at! Leave his loser @ss alone. That's why he's your EX.
2006-11-29 02:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the opportunity to forgive you.
If you love your bf, then you know he deserves the right to the truth.
Tell him everything, lay it all out, and let the chips fall where they may. You may lose him, but at least you won't be like the trash you were married to.
Take the lesson, you don't need to put yourself into situations that could risk your current happiness.
2006-11-29 02:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by magerious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay just be honest but dun give out things which u dont have to...like if someone did tell your boyfriend that u were with ur ex just admit it and say that u are really really sorry because it wasn't at all like the way he thinks it is and you didn't admit it before because you thought he'd jump to conclusions and .....onwards
2006-11-29 02:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by m3! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth now before it gets even worse. i'm with the guy i love now and all i've done is be truthful to him and its working out. no more lies, just tell him the truth and he'll be truthful to you. if he gets upset then just tell him, well at least you are telling him the truth now. then it'll make him think twice about getting upset at you. he may hurt a little but not as much as he would if you kept lying to him.
2006-11-29 02:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by my nickname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what is part 1??? Now, why would you hate your lifestyle because a whole bunch of pple you have never met in your life, and won't has judged you for it?
2016-05-23 01:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is come clean. If people are obviously already telling him things you can come clean and do the right thing and apologize and beg for forgiveness.
If your boyfriend is kind, loving and caring maybe he will just forgive you for your mess up.
2006-11-29 02:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by Issym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You confess that you let your emotions get the better of you and that you will never do this again. You tell him you were afradi becuase he is so wonderful and you don;t want to lose him. Then YOU NEVER SEE YOUR EX AGAIN!
You need to focus on this guy
2006-11-29 02:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with him. Stop lying to him, youre only hurting him more.
If you care about him, you will do the right thing and be honest.
2006-11-29 02:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by Jackeeeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dating people instead of marrying them.
2006-11-29 02:20:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋