My boyfriend just broke up with me. Right before school started. He went inside with a girl he knows I dont like without even telling me...he came out and said " we need to talk" We went away from my friends and he said " Its over" I asked why and he said "Because...I just dont feel that way about you I did before..Its just went away." What should I do..I am suicidel and I dont know if I can take this
2006-11-29 02:10:39 · 19 answers · asked by ~<3TwiztidHeart~<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At this point I am more angry and want him to hurt as much as I am...
2006-11-29 02:25:08 · update #1
Look pull it together! Never let your enemy know where they hurt you! This guy isnt worth it and there is someone for everyone.If you do this right you can say! feel what way I didnt think u thought I cared that much .Blow his ego ! The best you can do is show your ok thru this and you will get over it faster too! So pull up your bootstraps! Good things will come to you!
2006-11-29 02:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww....poor you. That must have hurt. In his defense, at least he told you straight up how he felt. Far better to do that than string you along, or go with another girl behind your back... He did the right thing. If his feelings had changed, he was honest about it.
As for you, well, this is going to hurt for a while, but you will get over it, I promise! Boys will come and go. This guy will not be the last. Give yourself time to get over him, and you will find someone else. It might not feel like that now, but it will happen, and the hurt will get less. Keep your chin up, stand tall, and don't let him or anyone else know you are hurting.
This one just wasn't the right one for you. Keep looking, and he'll come.
2006-11-29 02:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by helly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there.
It's very hard to say. First I would discuss with him why he felt the necessity to do this. is there something missing in the relationship, is he just being disloyal? make sure you make your feelings known to him and ask him to be honest with you. you can only get through situations like this if you get everything, and i mean everything, out on the table. otherwise you will always be asking questions...if you break up or stay together, if it isn't resolved as much as it can be right now, eventually it will destroy the relationship or bug you because it will be on your mind. you say he is a great dad, but is he great to you?? apart from this incident are there other things he has done wrong?? if this is a one time thing, then maybe he just slipped up. let him know that you will not put up with it again though. ask him how he would feel if you did that. say that if he wants only you that he has to earn back your trust.
Good luck
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2006-11-29 02:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be suicidal in the first place? You have two arms and two legs. You have a roof over your head. And if you are suicidal, then there is your answer. You have to be happy with yourself before you can make anyone else happy. Besides, the way the situation sounds, you are really too young to be involved with any boy. Get on your feet, and thank the gods you have what you do have. And be happy about it. You could have no legs or no arms or no food or no home. Instead of being thankful for what you do have, you are wasting precious time moping and wallowing over something so trivial.
2006-11-29 02:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by Evelynne B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, this guy sure is a jerk. He let you down hard. Its not worth killing yourself over, so lets get that right out of your mind. You are stronger than you think you are. Please don't think anymore about hurting yourself.
Obviously, by the way he treated you, he isn't worth the agony you are going through. Trust me on this. You will feel better, and you will find someone who will treat you better.
He's a pig, she's a slut. Act like a class act. Don't let anyone know how much you're hurting. Especially not them. Good luck, stay strong. You can get through this.
2006-11-29 02:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont stress over this dude hun! Hes just a boy, hes not a man, hes not the only man you will ever get close to. Youre still young, you got alot of obstacles you will have to overcome. Everybody has been through this. Every female has a exboyfriend who did them wrong....Now what you do is, go look for a guy who is the complete opposite of him! Good Luck dear, and keep your head up!
2006-11-29 02:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jackeeeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're suicidal over a boy?
Honey...no man (or immature creepy boy) is worth YOUR tears!
He sounds like a real jerk for messing with your head--you gonna let someone mess with your head like that? AHN! You pick yourself up and you IGNORE him and HER and you act like you DO NOT CARE and you go get your hair highlighted and buy a new sweater.
Dont let the haters see you down, that's what everyone is waiting for. So if you hold your head high (that pretty new highlighted hairdo head), the only thing they'll be talking about is your NEW boyfriend! The one that was waiting for YOU TO BREAK UP with that OTHER player!
2006-11-29 02:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever hurt yourself!! Especially over a boy. It will be hard on you for awhile but, believe me, it will get better. Surround yourself with friends and others that care for you. Try to just stay away from him. You don't need someone who apparently doesn't care about your feelings. If you truly feel suicidal, talk to your school counselor or another adult you can trust. NOBODY is worth hurting yourself over!!!
2006-11-29 02:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just know that no guy in this world is worth killing yourself over. You will find someone who will treat you right, be loyal, and love you for who you are. This is an unfortunate event, but it goes to show you that you cannot fully rely or trust in another person, because we all make mistakes and fall short. But God will never leave us, nor will He forsake us. His love for you is so great that it overflows, it never ends. Seek God, and you will be filled with a joy and love that will never cease or fade away.
2006-11-29 02:15:18 · answer #9 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how it feels to have that happen to you. What you do is one of two things...
1. Either try to see if there is anything that you can work out with your boyfriend if you still love him, and try to get back together.
2. See if there is anybody else that has an interest on you and you have an interest back and move on
2006-11-29 02:14:28 · answer #10 · answered by Murphy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋