How would you get back at a guy that after he dumped you....you find out he cheated on you with 5 diff girls?
How would you take this?
I really dont understand why he did it i gave him everything he wanted...the only thing i wouldnt do is anal wich is what he wanted, maybe thats why i dk all i know is that he is a cheating dog and i hate him now
of corse a week ago i loved him more than anything...
but oh well...so yeah how would you get back at him? this is a ? for the guys and gurls!!! I need ideas from everybody
2006-11-29 02:04:39 · 31 answers · asked by KaKes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi sweets...
You know I have to agree it's a natural reaction to find revenge after a break up. However I look at breakup's like a learning experience, something I don't want to repeat.
Ever been to a youth baseball game, and hear chanting...
(HIT ME ANOTHER ONE, JUST LIKE THE OTHER ONE..............REPEAT..)don't repeat... lol
However I think the best revenge is to let him know your not planning to stoop to his level. There are two types of people out there in this mean cruel world. There are "giver's" and "taker's", and if you "GIVE"..........believe me, a "Taker" will take and still not be happy. lol
So in the future.................Be confident, and keep running. Some guys like a challenge of the chase. lol
Revenge is when he see's he couldn't hurt you, and you grew from the experience!!
Good Luck Darlin
2006-11-29 02:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by Lo Lo G 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie, I agree with most of the women here who say that it is not worth it.
If you evaluate the reasons that men cheat you would find that most of the time it has nothing to do with you but rather with their ego some unfulfilled desire to prove their manhood.
Fortunately, not all men are dogs (some are puppies) so don't give up.
There are lots of other guys out there who would treat you right the way you deserve.
Why stoop to his level by trying to get back at him...you are bigger than that.
Be mature and move on (i know it won't be easy, but it's not the end of the world)
The best that you can do is to take care of yourself....go out and do something special for yourself, get a new hairdo, do your nails start to work out (more if u r already), pamper yourself in some way then treat yourself to a nice meal.
Show him that you are BETTER when he's not around.
Surround yourself with friends and family who will help to keep your mind occupied and off of him.
You are too good for a shmuck like him!!!
Be Strong and Good Luck to you!
2006-11-29 02:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by triniprincess 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's horrible! Personally, I'd just find out where he was having lunch or dinner one day, go to the bar there, toss a drink in his face, kick him in the ball and say "You got off lucky" then go on my merry way. The best revenge is to have a great life, so you shouldn't put too much time into trying to hurt him. It's honestly just a waste of time and he won't understand he's done anything wrong. He'll just think you're crazy, shrug off any blame he carries and move on. Then you're left looking like you couldn't get over him. I say short and sweet is the way to go. Just a little treat to get rid of some of the rage like a swift kick in the balls, then move on.
2006-11-29 02:10:44 · answer #3 · answered by Brianna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to get back at him. That will show him your immaturity. If he was that big of a cheater, why would you want him back? He can't be trusted. You are better off without him. You should never do anything you're not comfortable with. If that's the reason he broke up with you then he was only out for one thing anyway. Keep your respect and find someone who appreciates you for you, not what you can do for them.
2006-11-29 02:11:06 · answer #4 · answered by leigh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alright, so you already wasted time on this jerk and even gave him your heart. He screwed you over in a big way. I think the best thing for you to do is just move on. Don't give him the satisfaction of knowing how bad he hurt you.
The best way to get back at him? Live a happy, wonderful life without him!
Best of luck!
2006-11-29 02:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by Melanie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing for you to do is take yourself out of the situation and stay out. It appears cheating is a habit for him and he continues to make the choice to do it over and over. Instead of getting back at him, be good to you. Do something for yourself that you have wanted or needed for awhile. Getting even with someone tends to come back and bite you, so instead of getting even , get ahead and leave the situation and him behind. The best revenge is living well, so be GOOD to you. Good Luck! :-)
2006-11-29 02:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by Liz S. 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try to get him back in bed then when you go down on him, bite his balls hard. It will take days for him to feel right again. Then while he is in pain, take his cell phone and call everyone he has listed and tell them about his cheating and lying ways. Let everyone know who he really is.
2006-11-29 02:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by Jon O 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah - success is the best revenge. Be good to yourself and live your life and one day he may realise what a jerk he was but by then you won't even care.
That or post his name and number in your local pub.
2006-11-29 02:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by Skidoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to get revenge? Have some pride in yourself! Get the hell away from him and don't look back. He doesn't care, and when you do something like that, it only makes you look stupid. Buck up, and move on. Don't waste your time. That's all you've got.
2006-11-29 02:11:01 · answer #9 · answered by Evelynne B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no future in getting even. Even if you do, he still cheated on you and then dumped you. Getting back at him isn't going to change that. Move on!
2006-11-29 02:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by Spud55 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋