why? help me plz!!?

Question

there is this guy he is 19 years old and ive only met him once. He says that he is still a virgin, but i dont believe him i dont know why there si just something about him that makes menot believe him. He tells me that im the one for him and he wants to lose it to me and all this other stuff that makes me feel good about myself. he told me that he would give me anything...and that he would do anyhting to make me happy. I like everything that he tells me and he makes me feel good about myself. But theres one problem i have a boyfriend, and he doesnt even tell me most of the stuff that this 19 year old tells me. So it makes me wonder if my b/f really likes me or if this 19 year old is just telling me all this. he syad that he is very picky when it comes to girls but he siad when he saw me he knoew i was the one. So does he mean everythign that he says or is it just a lie? and my b/f does he really care about me?

Answer 1

well it's hard to tell if you boyfriend is really caring about you but that 19 year old can think he means what he's saying but he doesn't know for sure weather your the one for him or not. You might end up being that person but he is lusting right now. But bacc to your boyfriend, does he show you that he cares? Or does he do things for you?What can you benefit from the relationship? If you cant get anything out of the relationship, he doesn't show that he cares, and you don't have feelings for him, that means that there isn't anything that you benefit from this relationship. That's not what any woman deserves. Not at all. If you feel that this 19 year old is the one give it a chance, don't live regrets wondering, what if this or what if that. Live for happiness and success. Be for yourself. I'm not saying be selfish but think about yourself sometimes. The most important things in your life is you, God, and your family. Live and die by those right there.

Answer 2

Sexy Chick,
Listen to me, do not go for any stuff that someone feeds you Okay? okay! Let actions be the safe word. My cousin was beautiful, she met this guy who promised her the world, now she is 47 years old, she has nothing, there druggies, it is sad. So all you listen to is a dream when he says he can get you all these things. And to tell you he is a virgin, remember boys grow up way later than women do, there is like a 2 to 5 year spread in the ages when you are 18 at the same time. Women mature so much faster, and remember if this guy has money, you want to see check stubs or some financial truth to his words, also my cuz's husband is the master at words, so is 90 % of us men, She has been on continued state help and medical . Just remember you have to Love yourself first before you can Love anyone else or to have anyone else Love you for sure, if you do you got 70% of the relationship in the bag, self confidence is 99 % of the battle. Don't forget about manipulation, it could be just for that one night stand, one month, but it will fall apart if he does not continue his words of wisdom towards you. Your ole man you have now, get rid of the guy if he can not say anything nice or romantic towards you, what you have now is what you will have for the rest of your life. One last thing. I gave up on a super relationship when I was 20 to 25 and guess what? I have not found anyone as sweet, cool, Loving, sincere, and as wonderful as her. I have been into four long term relationships since, I have been through the weed whacker with them all. Don't think the grass is greener on the other side, it usually is rocky or Rockier than the first one. Take Care Term!

Answer 3

You should stay with your boyfriend. This 'alleged' 19 year old virgin sounds like he's just trying to get in your pants. Find out what's going on with your guy and leave the other guy alone. And don't send him any signals. If you're committed to your boyfriend, then don't encourage the other guy at all.

Answer 4

Having Sex doesnnt mean that he likes you. And by the way, i dont believe that virgin, if he wants to loose it to you, he should marry you. Infact, if a guy really loves you, he doesnt push you into sex like this virgin is. The best tiome to have sex is when you are married.So i think you should stick with your boyfriend he has proove his love for you. All guys say they are virgins even if they are not,. So when you are on that bed, i think that you will be the only virgin and he will bw trying to break your virginity instead of his

Answer 5

Honestly. How are we supposed to know? You are the one who knows these men. You are the one who just said you don't believe this 19 year old. You are the one going out with your boyfriend. Does he need to say to you that you are the one? Or do you feel that from his actions? Actions speak so much louder than words. Anyone can say the right thing and make you feel good. That doesn't mean it is the truth.

Answer 6

He is just trying to sleep *score* with someone 19 years younger, your boyfriend thinks that you know how he feels,he is dating you. And i wouldnt believe mr. old for anything. If you do care for him,let your young man go and let him find a woman who cares. It is not right to him, to be devoted to someone who is not. If you like your bf do something nice for him and tell him how you feel,he will reciprocate and you will hear what you want from him.Either way make a decision,good luck.

Answer 7

if your guts intincts tell you there is something wrong, there probably is. Your instincs saved you from lions and hyenas, they can probably save you now ^_^
And just because your bf doesn't tell you these things may not reflect his feelings. He's just 19!

Answer 8

it sounds like he is only after sex --- your boyfriend cares about you so say no to the other guy and see how long he stays around

Answer 9

Follow your instincts, and decide which guy you want to be with.

Answer 10

he is only after you for sex stay with your boyfriend