I love my boyfriend, but im afraid he might be an obsessed cheater. We have been on again off again for the last week now. I saw him making out with another girl when we were still going out, but he thought that we were broken up. He says that he loves me and that he can’t live without me. He acts like he is sincere, but how do I know he just doesn’t want me for my tongue? He says that he is going to be a better person., do I give him another chance?
2006-11-29 01:48:49 · 24 answers · asked by sexygurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-11-29 01:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
This points to the history of music... you see, as we grow older, music changes and evolves to compensate for the needs and desires of the people of the time... If you were to ask many of the "rockers" who were your age during the time that these bands were at their prime.. they would be outraged and say NO WAY should they be kicked to the curb... and in part they are right and in part they are wrong... What is correct to think is that they should be kicked because they do not accommodate to most of the desires of the newer music lovers... On the flip side, it is wrong to kick them because without recognizing their place in music history, we would not have today the bands that we love to listen to... these bands have molded into being what we listen to everyday on our local rock stations and Cd's... I do not think we should forget where music has come from, but at the same time I believe we should keep evolving so that we can stretch the creative mind of the local lyricist who will be the next big thing in a couple years! I hope this helps and I hope this makes sense...
2016-05-23 01:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't know you were still on when he was making out with another girl? My dear, this one is pretty quick onthe draw isn't he? Getting a girl to make out with him so quick? And if all you are is a tongue to him, why are you letting him use you like that? Obsessed Cheater with a girlfriend who doesn't know when to say "THIS IS IT!" and mean it. Come on, you already know what the answeer is, DUMP HIM! Unless you like all this pain and would like to wait a few more years, until you have some kids by him and he still will dump you in the end. Cut the cord, while you may be in pain, it will be temporary and in the end, you will feel better by learning to value yourself enough to not allow such shabby treatment of yourself from others! Good luck!
2006-11-29 01:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I think that is the hardest question a person could ask them self, is if they are done with a relationship.
However the question you need to be asking is... how do you feel? Do you see the relationship shaping up in the next few year's? Will he stop cheating? How is this other woman connected to the relationship?
Once you figure out some of the basic's, it'll help with making that desicion. Nevertheless, if this gentleman was so in love with you, I don't think he'd be finding a way to replace you so quickly. Be it a week, two weeks, or a month.
Be confident in yourself...stay open minded, and avenue's will open with answer's for your questions.
Take care, I hope things work out for the best.
2006-11-29 01:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lo Lo G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put him to the curb. Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater.
And just exactly WHAT makes your tongue so special?
2006-11-29 01:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he said he thought that you two were broke up and was making out with another woman then he really didn't care about getting back to your two's relationship. He is only in it for one thing and one thing only personal satisfaction.. if he is cheating now again and again. You deserve someone who is going to be faithful to you and your two's future together... Seek someone else
2006-11-29 01:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because if he really loved you it wouldn't have mattered if you were together or not.. He know that you two go on and off and if he wanted you back he would have be faithful to you...... Just tell him to leave you alone and find someone else who would love an respect you for who you an what you have to offer them.......... good luck.
2006-11-29 01:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go do things that you want to do for yourself and give him a ton of space so he can be that better person without dragging you down.
2006-11-29 01:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please get rid of this boy/man. He will only do it again. Sometimes people don't want to be alone but sometimes it is the best thing. You know what you have to do.
What is he going to bring home to you honey? And then it is too late.
2006-11-29 01:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by AlphaFeGreatWhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah why not! He lives by the code:
Here's to wives and girfriends may the two never meet!
2006-11-29 02:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by JUAN FRAN$$$ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋