Is it bad if you bf eats you out but you dont really like to return the favor to him....... b/c you dont really like doing that all that well. but he keeps asking you when are you gonna return the favor???
2006-11-29 01:39:01 · 10 answers · asked by heatherstike2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not bad but it may seem unfair to him.
If your bf is one of those men that love having that done to him, you are going to have serious probles sooner or later because since he's been doing it, he's gonna start to feel hurt that you don't return the favour. He may interpret that to mean a lot of things which may not be tru like you don't love him enough to do it, you don't trust him enough or you are not committed.
If you had told him before that you don't like doing it, maybe he just enjoys ddoing it to you and is O.K with that. Don't be pressured into doing something that makes you uncomfortable but don't ask hi to do it to you. If he volunteers thats a different story.
2006-11-29 01:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by ayanagin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to Ice Gypsy, just go down on him and return the favor.
2006-11-29 09:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by Shocker3:16 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it really a favor? Or does he just like doing it?
2006-11-29 09:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by peanut44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it isn't really fair, but you could find other ways of getting him off that would work. Get lube and use your t*ts to t*ttie f*ck him. or even use lube and give him a hand job. Finally, you could lube up you butt cheeks and let him use just your cheeks to get off...gives him the feeling of intercourse without the actual act. The reason i say use lube for all these is because without lube it doesn't feel like your mouth or p*ssy.
2006-11-29 10:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable, if you feel your being "bumrushed"
to do things, DON'T DO IT. REMEMBER YOU ARE THE PRINCESS OR QUEEN HERE, AND HE NEEDS TO PLEASE YOU TO WIN YOUR TRUST , ESTEEM, AND LOVE. IF HE RUSHES YOU, HOW MUCH IS HE THINKING OF YOUR TENDER FEELINGS? YOU DON'T NEED A SELFISH MAN
PUSHING YOU.
yoU DO WHAT FEELS GOOD, AND IF IT DOESN'T STOP.,
TAKE A BREAK, DON'T GO TOO FAST. SAVOUR THE MOMENTS THAT BRING GOOD FEELINGS.
bY THE WAY, IF HE WAS ANY GOOD AT "EATING YOU OUT"
YOU WOULD HAVE ALREADY RETURNED THE FAVOUR
WITHOUT HIM ASKING, TRUST ME. LOL
STAY COOL LITTLE WOMAN.
2006-11-29 09:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You just need practice......I'll be your willing stand-in, (or up in this case). When you have perfected it, you'll be ready for him.
I won't rush you either.....practice at your own pace....if it takes several months, then so be it!!!!
2006-11-29 09:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by luvsbjs_418 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would not mind --- i prefer to eat a lady than be eaten --- yes i know i sound very strange
2006-11-29 10:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to like it. It's only fair. (No one says you HAVE to swallow, just get him excited and then get down to business)
2006-11-29 09:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by Jessie P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its bad!!!
how would you like it if you done it to him then he said, "no,.. sorry love i dont like going down there"?!
2006-11-29 09:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe its sort of bad! You gotta please him also, he's pleasing you alot it sounds likes!
2006-11-29 09:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by hot_chick4eva20032002@yahoo.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋