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He got me a gift card as a going away/christmas present and has been a good boss, should I get him something when I leave?

2006-11-29 01:38:34 · 13 answers · asked by Lotus 2 in Society & Culture Etiquette

What about my coworkers? Should I give them a card or something?

2006-11-29 01:40:58 · update #1

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Yes, giving a gift is something for your boss to remember you for. You can be able to probably get a good reference letter in the future from your Boss.

2006-11-29 01:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by BuNNY 2 · 0 1

For the record, except for Bosses' Day or some other day where your boss should be recognized, it is inappropriate to give your boss a gift. He isn't the one leaving, you are.

It is most appropriate for your boss and coworkers to give you a parting gift- not the other way around. Whenever someone left a job in all the places where I've worked as an adult, there was a party or some sort of luncheon given in the departing employees honor. A collection was taken from all employees (who wished to contribute) and a gift was purchased or a plaque was given. Depending on the level of the employee sometimes the 'big person in charge' would pay for the gift out of his/her pocket. However, it is not etched in stone that there is a certain way to show your appreciation for having come into someone's acquaintance. If you want to do something nice, you can suggest a pot luck luncheon in your honor where several people have to bring in something to contribute. You can bring something to contribute also- somewhat like a "I appreciate you guys too" type of thing.

2006-11-29 01:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 6 · 1 0

Yes, give the boss something of equal value. Always leave on a positive note. Co workers? well thats different, what have you done for the holidays in years past? I don't think it is necessary. If they gave you something - leaving the company gift, then a nice thank you card is really all that is necessary

2006-11-29 02:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by I_Love_Life! 5 · 0 0

remember that for any new job u apply u'll need the references from ur former boss, so i suggest u do something to part on good terms. besides he seems like he cares.
a gift might be too personal, though this depends on the type of boss. anyway at least return the gesture with the card by giving a card to him.
as for ur co-workers, have a party if thy're the type, tho thad might be taken as a sign u like leaving em.
custom is that they throw U a party or get u gifts.

2006-11-29 01:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by implosion13 4 · 0 1

Why don't you get your boss something, and then get like a hamper or something for your co-workers or a cake? That way everyone will get something and you won't have to go to so much trouble. Get your boss a card with the present and write a special note inside to them.

2006-11-29 01:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

No gift.

Send a card after you start your new job and get settled. It will mean more to him if you remember him after the fact.

If you need a reference from this boss, the have him write a letter of reference for you. Why would you wait? (this confuses me)

2006-11-29 02:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by firehorsetwo 3 · 0 0

If you had a good working relationship with your boss than I would at the very least give him a card or a personal note letting him know that you enjoyed working with him. It really is not necessary to give your co-workers a gift. If you plan to use any of them as references in the future, then surely a nice basket of muffins, bagels, or pastries should suffice.

2006-11-29 02:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by mindquest 2 · 0 0

I don't think a gift is necessary but a card to thank them for all the help they have given you.
I still have cards from ex employees who left 5 years ago.

2006-11-29 02:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by Bladerunner (Dave) 5 · 1 0

A Thank you card will do it. After all he hired you. Plus who knows, he seems like he cares, he might send you a bonus. A gift will be too much, unless you were getting a great pay. And you might need a reference letter. Good Luck.

2006-11-29 02:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by star 2 · 0 0

I would not. As you were an employee, the boss giving you something to show appreciation for your work is appropriate but you should not feel obligated to give one back. I would not give anything to co workers except speak to people and tell them you enjoyed working with them and wish them luck in the future

2006-11-30 05:49:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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