I really like this boy but he barely knows me. I'm a virgin though and i'm not ready for sex. I wanna commitment but do not want to do anything other than make out. I don't know what to do in that kind of position. I'm getting to know him. But what should I do.
2006-11-29 01:30:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he barely knows you then you should not even consider making out with him. Take your time life is short but the decisions we make can haunt us for a long time. EVERYTHING you do in relationships will follow you into marriage. Not everyone can or will do what your husband will or can do. Do not leave yourself open to memories that may cause you to wander in your marriage. As for right now do not get caught in a place that you can not escape from. Some boys will not stop once you get them started. Know boys get started much sooner than you will. Be careful and do not get caught in ANY position that you have not full decided beforehand that you want to be in.
2006-11-29 01:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by D J Honestly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you get into that u should be prepared that anything can happened.You guys may even agree to just onlly make out , but love thing may happened so if you are not ready then don't go into it, but if you do am not saying that may not work out but it's not even from only the guy you may want more yourself if you actually start liking him a lot.Take care and i hope you make the right decision and just make sur that which ever one you make you should be a happy that is just what is most important.
2006-11-29 09:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be upfront right off the bat! It is only fair to him if you let him know he has no chance of sex for a long time. It unfortunatly is very important to a lot of guys. Although I dont know if they really care as much if you get the job done in another way. If you know what I mean. Or is that out of the question too?
2006-11-29 09:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by runzwsizorz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to have sex then don't you will regret if you force it on. There are other things you can do to pleasure each other such as hand jobs and fingering also sucking each other's body parts and when the time is right you will have sex with him
2006-11-29 09:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a guy and would like to suggest that if i had been in place of your crush i would have expected that a girl seduces me first.in this way i would try to come closer to her but later the girl should behave like she cannot stay without him with he guy before he 'uses' her . in this way your problem is solved.u get the guy ,the guy doesn't gets $e#.
2006-11-29 09:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get to know him better and when YOU are ready the time will come!
Just hold on tight and wait!
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2006-11-29 09:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by Alexis D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.. Hand jobs and BJs are good. And you can still be a virgin.
2006-11-29 09:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you are a virgin and he should wait on you til you are ready and if he don't understand that then leave him alone
2006-11-29 09:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by jay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he can't wait then move on. It's not worth it. you can never get it back once it's gone!!!! Stay strong, and you'll find someone who is willing to love and respect your decision to wait. Kudos on your virtues!!!!!!
2006-11-29 09:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by lakesham 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be open, (not your legs) and honest with him..........tell him exactly what you said here and if he's the type of guy you think he is, he'll understand and abide by it.
Good Luck.
2006-11-29 09:33:19 · answer #10 · answered by luvsbjs_418 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋