i have a boyfriend. and most of my family members knoes about this. and its only my dad which doesnt know about me having a boyfriend... n im scared to tell him. he is a type of person which we go mad even though its not a big issue. and i always get bitten up by him... i really loves my dad alot.. and i also loves my boyfriend alot.. and we plan to get married soon. and all i need is for my dad to approve this relationship. i wants to tell him.. but im very afraid. i dun wanna lose both of them... what supposed i tell my dad?? what i supposed to do?? can sum1 please help me.!!!
2006-11-29 01:20:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your dad is not so checked out that he does not know something is going on. He just wants what's best for you. Give it a go with a chat. If you approach him with maturity and respect, he may be able to see you as growing up and responsible. Good luck.
2006-11-29 01:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by donewiththismess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that you and your boyfriend have the plan of getting married soon and most of your family knows you have a boyfriend. You should tell already to your dad about your boyfriend because as you've said you're sure that he'll get mad. So you have no choice. Take the consequence. Sure you're dad will be mad but I know he'll understand. You're a girl and he knows sooner or later you'll have you're own family. And also even though he'll be mad, if you tell him sooner, you're father will got to meet and know your boyfriend. Your father wants the best for you I know. Tell him first then ask your boyfriend to go to your house so they can get to know each other. If your boyfriend really loves you, he'll do anything even if your dad will get mad.
2006-11-29 01:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by aNGie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you 16 years old? If you are over 18 years old, your dad don't have to approve of your relationship, just tell him about your boyfriend and make him deal with it. However, your father would probably like it much better if you introduced your boyfriend to him before y'all get married. Also your father won't stop loving you, because you got a boyfriend.
By the way if you are of an age where you are scared to tell your father you have a boyfriend, you are probably to young to have one.
2006-11-29 01:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your dad when your boyfriend is around and when your family is around so they can help you. If you go to one of your closet family members they might help you. Just tell him dad don't get mad. I love you and everything, but I have found a boyfriend and him and i are planning to get married soon and I want your aprroval and if you don't aprrove I will get married anway. Don't let your dad stop you from loving someone just because he doesn't aprrove.
2006-11-29 01:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by Cutie Cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest, i think you should tell your dad nearer the time that you and your boyfriend plan to get married. just keep it from him just now incase he beats u up...plus if you said he'll make it a big issue and get mad, then he might try to stop you communicating with your boyfriend. why dont you speak to your boyfriend about this, and see what he has to say?? cant he talk to your dad, he could tell your dad that he really loves his daughter, its important if they get along, so i mean, if your boyfriend has the courage to do that, then your dad will admire his bravery and honesty. good luck. xxx
2006-11-29 01:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by ☮Luwayla☮ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. A big part of becoming an adult is facing your fears. When you are woman enough to tell him, he will see how responsible you are because of it. Don't let him find out from someone else-that would only be a bigger disappointment. Some people life their lives like they will never die. Others die without ever living. You only have one life to live and if you hang on to your fears, your life will pass you by- You will miss out on valuable experiences. Do what you have to.
2006-11-29 01:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by Tommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit him down during supper or something and just tell him you just wanna let him know that you started to see someone, tell him you could invite him over so they could meet each other, it will be ok do not worry your dad has to realize your gunna have a boyfriend now...or later its gunna happen. Good Luck
2006-11-29 01:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a father we are protective of our "little girls". It would be best not to hide this fact from him and disappoint him by not telling him what is going on in your life.
If he gets mad or upset at least you will know you were always truthful with him.
He might just surprise you and be happy for you.
2006-11-29 01:25:06 · answer #8 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Are you over 18? Do you live with your parents? If you are old enough to get married, just tell him. He maybe made but he will get over it. You do have the right to live your own life. If you live with them, move out and then tell him.
2006-11-29 01:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are old enough to make your own decisions, then tell your dad. Let him get mad. Your dad will love you no matter what. He will get over it.
2006-11-29 01:26:21 · answer #10 · answered by peanut44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋