my bf relli wants to do it..i can sense it...and i relli luv him a lot....but i dont wanna have any problem later..we have kissed and smootched a lot of times...i never had a problem in dat and its been just 6 months since we started going out..i dunno wat to do....help me out....
2006-11-29 01:12:09 · 22 answers · asked by coolbabe_hot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not let him pressure you into doing anything that you don't want to do. Stick to your guns and tell him that you are not ready for sex. If he's not happy with that - move on. Good Luck!
2006-11-29 01:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you are saying that you are not ready to have sex with him. You should not let him pressure you in to doing anything that you are not comfortable doing. If he really, really does love you he will understand and he will wait for you . It has just been 6 months
I wonder how old the both of you are? I wonder if he is ready to be a father if there is the possibility of pregnancy? But I would only hope that when the time comes that you would be having safe sex as AIDS is alive and well!
Talk to him and tell him the time is not right for you and see if he waits.. if he doesn't want to wait then he is not the one for you after all.
Do not let him pressure you into having sex before you are ready!
2006-11-29 01:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by truthwalker7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON"T DO THIS! Understand that sex is meant to be the cement that binds a married couple together for life. It's not meant to be just something you do for an evening's fun. To sleep together before you're married carries risks, especially if you end up breaking up with the guy, which will rip apart that bond that you've made with him. That will really hurt you, and I would hate to see that happen to you. Also, if he really respects you, he will not pressure you into doing this when you're unsure if you want to do it in the first place. He should honor and respect you enough to want to protect your virginity until the proper time. Honor and respect yourself enough to say no.
2006-11-29 01:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by walks_far_dude 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont have sex with him. you may think you love him but more than likely you love what he does for you. please dont have sex with him because if you do he will stop comming around so much. he will stop calling you and eventually he will not want any thing to do with you. all men are the same rather they are 16 to 35 they all just want sex! once they get it they're done. i was in a relationship for 2yrs.2Yrs thats a long time. and i didnt have sex with him because i thought he would leave after i slept with him. well on new years eve i figured hey nows a time to give it up. it will be a great thing. well we did and the next day at work he was already tellin his friends and making sh!t up we didnt even do. then one night i came over to talk to him about it and he was like yeah your going to need to leave because i have a girl coming over and she will freak if she finds out that you are here. wow that hurt real bad when he said that so i didnt call him or talk to him at work. PLEASE dont sleep with him. do me a favor and dont!
2006-11-29 01:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Oh_man_thats_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are right, its your body and you make the decisions, NO ONE ELSE!!!! If you arent ready for another 6 months, he will stay if he loves and respects you. Think of it this way, do you want a guy to be with you just because of sex? You do it when YOU are ready...
2006-11-29 01:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by dramafreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is based on lust n love is based on trust, respect...if he loves u, he wunt pressurize u to have sex n he wud wait until u are comfortable with the idea of sex.....If he is pressurizing u, den he is having a gud time then he 'll dump u.Wen u ready go 4 it, btw use protection, u neva knw......
2006-11-29 01:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by Glamorous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!! If this guy is really in love with you, he should be willing to wait until you are 100% sure yourself. And since you are asking for our advice, to me that means you are not even 50% sure. Besides if you do not have sex with him, he is only going to show more attention to you and try to make you happier than ever before. :)
2006-11-29 01:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can say when you're ready to have sex, but it sounds like you're not ready yet. There's nothing wrong with waiting. Tell your boyfriend that you're not ready yet, and if he truly cares about you, he'll respect your decision.
2006-11-29 01:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if u believe sex after marriage..don't do it...coz in 90% cases once sex happens guys are not interested any more...and if u get marry with another guy...u will be cheating with her..and if ur sure that he is gonna merry u any how...then go ahead my friend...but mind u..its a big risk...all the best..
2006-11-29 01:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by sureshflourish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure dat its something dat u wanna do and dont rush you and him will have sex eventually when the time is right
2006-11-29 01:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Bugz Bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋