My boyfriend cheated on me. He told me that he loved me and that he didn’t mean to do it, that he thought we were broken up. He dumped the other girl, and apologized so many times, saying that he loves me and that he can’t imagine his life without me. Should I give him another chance, or kick him to the curb?
2006-11-29 01:10:20 · 20 answers · asked by sexygurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he thought you had broken up!! DUMP HIM
2006-11-29 01:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by pinkkitten 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can give him anoter chance, but watch him closely and the first thing that you think he might be doing just kick him to the curb or you can make him prove to you that he loves you. Tell him the honest truth that he is in the dog house and if he wants you; you are just going to play hard to get because this time you won't let your guard down and you are going to keep him on a tight leece. Scare him a little and maybe if you scare him enough he might nevr do it again. He could leave that is the other thing that he might do, but don't worry about it because you have time to fall in love all over again and find your soulmate.
2006-11-29 09:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by Cutie Cute 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Has he cheated on other women? Once a cheater always a cheater. Sad fact but a true one. He hurt you and although you may forgive him you will never forget the hurt and be able to truly trust him. Unless he can accept that you will never get past the hurt and distrust (believe me you won't), you will never have a totally healthy relationship. The answer depends on how much energy you believe he is worth to you.
2006-11-29 09:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by MAC 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask yourself, do you want to give him another chance. He made a mistake, he's said he's sorry. Can you move past that? If you can't then both of your sakes you need to end it. If you can, and you want to be with him, give him a chance. But you have to be prepared to let it go, if you're going to bring it up every time you have an argument then do yourself, and him a favour and end it now.
2006-11-29 09:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kick him to the curb. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-11-29 09:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't make yourself innocent. it is time to awaken. you still have many times to choose a right man.
god has many plans for us. he won't let you suffer but he may give an offer.
i hope you will never ignore what he offers. just wait, god is working.
2006-11-29 09:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb; if he cheated once, he'll do it again!
2006-11-29 09:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
kick to curb?...well what does your heart tell u? Were u all ready broken up that week?
2006-11-29 09:12:35 · answer #8 · answered by aflyladybug4u 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Huh? I need the back story of why he thought you guys were broken up before I can comment on this one. Best to get all the info first. Add that info please?
2006-11-29 09:14:21 · answer #9 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should give him a chance but if he do that again, dump him.
2006-11-29 09:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by FairGround 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever. He so just lied to you. If he loved you, he wouldn't have slept with another girl.
2006-11-29 09:12:00 · answer #11 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋