Ok. I just had a son. His father put me through pure hell while we were together. He has cheated on me, while we were on the way to the hospital he stopped by the ATM to make me get money out of my account to pay bills, WHILE I'M IN LABOR!!!, not to mention ignores me in the delivery room. I dumped him after that but I do still love him. We both worked together at the same job it was a job that I enjoyed a lot and my maternity leave is almost up and I have the choice to go back. I'm not sure if I can emotionally handle it and I don't know where to begin healing from the whole situation.Should I go back for my son's sake?
2006-11-29 01:09:22 · 10 answers · asked by babydoll_y2g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were you, I wouldn't. Why? For more of the same? Girl, get yourself together. That is definitely mental abuse. You must be strong for your son even if he is not there. Find something else that interests you. You will come out ahead.
2006-11-29 01:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by peanut44 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can find a job that pays the same and you think you would enjoy I would go that route. If not go back to the job and make sure he knows that you want nothing to do with him and if he bothers you at work you will wage a complaint to Human Resources
2006-11-29 09:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, you shouldnt. Its like getting a stone and hit it in your head. Think girl, if you really love your son forget him. I know its hard for you to move on, but only think about that you are not alone that have been "unloved" (sorry for the term)... Stand up and be strong, its life's challenge! Hope i have helped you =) Read all the answers, they all help...
2006-11-29 09:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by RoughY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shop around that resume right now, girl! The job will be stressful enough having him around, and you don't want to take it out on your baby when you get home from work. I'd totally detach yourself as much as you can from him.
Sorry, but he sounds like a first class jerk.
2006-11-29 09:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by chefgrille 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy at work is a real loser. My best suggestion is to go find another job, get yourself a good attorney and get as much money from that loser as you can. Guys like that need to be castrated.
2006-11-29 09:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For your son's sake? What will your son get out of his mother being treated miserably by his father?
From what you explained, it sounds like it would better for everyone if you stayed away from this man who continually hurts you.
2006-11-29 09:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by Michael 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go back because you love it and you need a job for your son. Don't ever let him touch your son. He is a jerk and he dosen't deserve anything. Don't let him destroy you.
2006-11-29 09:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by apple87guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can go back to your job and not to him.
2006-11-29 09:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back to work and if he gives you a problem give 2 kicks in his pee pee and call me in the morning
2006-11-29 09:11:47 · answer #9 · answered by NOT IN USE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if at all you can avoid it.....please go to another job.
2006-11-29 09:11:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋