if your seeing this guy casually, but you wont take things any further than kissing, despite "teasing the guy", and the fact that he wants more sexually,would the guy think that your not interested in him and therefore, not ask you out on a date?even if this has happened more than once!?
2006-11-29 00:58:16 · 18 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys like the chase. If there is always something you won't give him he will always be interested in you. As soon as you give in to him his fun is over.
2006-11-29 01:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally, I'd say that you should be comfortable within your limits and not do anything you don't want to do. If the guy is forcing you to go further than you want, then you should not be with him. If he stops seeing you for that reason, then he wasn't worth it int he first place.
The strange part is that you say you keep "teasing the guy," suggesting that you make it seem like you lead him on to believe that you DO want more than just kissing. In that case, the guy doesn't know what to think. If it happens more than once that you lead a guy on, and then say you don't want to go further, even the "good guys" will just get confused and frustrated and move on. If you don't want to go further, don't let on like you do; that way, the guys who stick with you are those who actually like you for you and not just because they're trying to get laid. If you're deliberately teasing the guys, you're creating part of the problem yourself.
2006-11-29 09:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by rd211 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How far you want to go in a relationship is, i think myself, up to you.
It is not clear if you are teasing the guy on purpose but i would not advise doing this.
There is nothing i can see wrong with kissing in the early stages of a relationship and any man that has respect for would be patient enought to wait.
2006-11-29 09:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by malcolmg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, guys like a chase. But guys HATE drama and games. So you are on the razors edge. Finding that thine line between playing hard to get and adding drama in his life is hard, but if u do, he wont be able to stop thinking about you and it could end up very good for you.
2006-11-29 09:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy and how much he likes you. If he's somewhat interested, your lack of affection might be a huge turnoff for him. If he really likes you, he may continue to pursue. Either way, why are you teasing him? Why don't you want to be physical?
2006-11-29 09:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Sex is an aspect of the relationship, but it's not why you go out with someone. If that's all he's after, then you should take a look at the relationship again and see if it's really worth keeping him.
2006-11-29 09:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to slowly take it to the next level because if you are into this guy you don't want to bore him or anything. Show him that you really like him that is if you d like him. Show him he is apart of your life. You are treating him more like a friend than a boyfriend. Show him some love or you can tell him that you aren't ready to go to the next level.
2006-11-29 09:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by Cutie Cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on his temperament. You might be driving him to despair if he's really hot for you, in which case he's probably bring things to a head himself. On the other hand, he might not care that much, or be seeing other people, in which case he'll probably drop you pretty soon becasue you're not worth the effort. That might not be the case if you're good friends, of course... You get out what you put in.
2006-11-29 09:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by Alyosha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily...guys like a chase but it's important that you be honest with him.
If chooses to chase you after you've been totally honest about your intentions, then no harm done, but if you are leading him on that could potentially cause problems for both of you.
2006-11-29 09:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by Wife~and~Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be so coy? If you dont want to have sex with him ever, then just say so. If you like to get to know him for longer first, again say so!There's nothing wrong with a bit of honesty and plain speaking!
2006-11-29 09:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋