Long story. My male friend of 10 years and I got together whilst he had a girlfriend who he lived with. He split with her, sold the house etc and now we live together which has been great. However, it has came out that he kissed a girl from work behind my back. Says he was drunk, shouldn't have happened etc.
My problem is that I know before me, he cheated lots of times on his ex without having the balls to break up with her and I knew all of this. He kept friends with a lot of the girls he cheated with and I just never expected because of our long friendship, that he would have done anything like that behind my back. This is a guy who has honestly treated me like a princess since we got together.
He is devastated because he knows I have 2 past long term relationships that ended because I was cheated on. I'm angry with him and he is all fussing over me, reassuring me, apologising, trying to make amends etc.
I just wanna know whether anyone thinks this guy deserves my trust?
2006-11-29 00:50:48 · 7 answers · asked by asker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably not. If you think he deserves your trust, then go for it.
2006-11-29 01:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he does not deserves your trust. how could you not have seen this coming? all the signs were there. If a guy cheats on his partner to be with you what in the world makes you think he wont do it to you. I mean you knew his background why would you take a risk like that. Most guys (i was going to say all guys but i don't want to generalize) are all the same. what is it they say once a cheater always a cheater- i thought everybody knew that. you need to take some time out and make some life changing decisions. it is going to be hard but you need to figure out what you want- it's all about you now- you do not need him
2006-11-29 01:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by lululu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe trust your instincts. I left my Ex for someone else..not technically cheating..but when he took me back I did the same thing again without really caring. I was really sorry but when he started being all angry and annoying (lasted for 4/5 months) I kissed someone else again.
I think if he loves you very much and you feel the same way then you should take that leap of faith and give it a try. Make it very clear though out of the respect for your friendship and love you can give him one last shot but if it happens again its the end of relationship and friendship.
I think you should trust him but if you drag this for too long you will end up losing him so be wise and make a quick decision!
2006-11-29 01:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Curious George 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were probably better off as friends. He sounds like a serial cheater. I believe if he has already kissed then he will do more once you forgive him and a little time has passed. he'll soon be up to his old tricks.
2006-11-29 00:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by yensenm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you knew his behavior before, why would he change. Most people don't change, either live with the cheater or leave him.
2006-11-29 01:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you trust him? Once a cheater, always a cheater!
2006-11-29 00:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2006-11-29 00:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by pinkkitten 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋