We broke up two months ago. During our breakup I was real upset as he was. The right thing to do would have been to wait and let matters cool down however on the fourth day I was going mental and researched and found his house address. I went to visit him and naturally he was freaked out. He told me that it was now definitely over as he felt I had come to speak to his parents about him. That was not the case n he was left with a misunderstanding as he gave me a lift to the station.Since I have called him like three times and each time he says he doesn’t want to know, I sent him a detailed email clarifying the situation but he trashed it without reading. It’s been two months and my pain just keeps growing. Iv been away to three different locations since, hanged out with my mates and my dear family have even met new guys but I awake during the night praying he’ll call or return. Last night I got an idea that perhaps I should go visit his dad who is a solicitor and tell him the situation
2006-11-29 00:33:16 · 4 answers · asked by apple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him the full story, the reason for my first visit and seek his help in clarifying the matter with him.
Do you think I should go?
2006-11-29 00:34:00 · update #1
Iv decided not to go….. why should I clarify myself. It will unveil in time if it’s meant to be right? Why should I force it… im going to get a better, sexier and caring man. Someone who will light the candle he blew out – no even better someone who wont like candles.!!!!
2006-11-29 00:56:53 · update #2
To him it looks like you're STALKING him. If you still have feelings for him WAIT!!! don't search for him, don't go talking to his friends or parents, he is no longer a little kid. Mark my words, to him right now you're being too clinggy. If you want to get back with him, you have to start out slowly again. Run into him (accidently) on the street, or in the club, or at a store. Don't show up at his house...
2006-11-29 00:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by zaitsev_v1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do so at your peril!!
I'm sorry to say that I think him using the excuse that he felt like you were checking up on him or intending to speak to his parents just sounds lame. In my opinion, in his eyes the break was for good and he had, despite contrary belief or indication, no intention of getting back together and was merely paying you lip service.
Cut yourself free and find someone who wants to be with you honey!!
2006-11-29 08:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. You obviously scared him...just try and let it go and move on.
2006-11-29 08:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by trini_rocker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on girl. he obviously doesnt deserve your attention - find someone who appreciates you.
2006-11-29 08:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by claire l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋