2006-11-29 00:31:40 · 11 answers · asked by burgler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
1. Talk to the person about the problem. Do they see what they area doing? Do they understand the consequences to others of their behavior?
2. What is their response to this discussion? Do they acknowledge the problem and want to help solve it? OR is it a 'too bad, that's the way it is' answer?
3. If they want to try and solve it, then you will need to come to a compromise about time, labor, money etc.
If they have a too bad so sad attitude, then the way to deal with it is to leave.
2006-11-29 00:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is caring about parents hurting others in the family? What is the cost? In this day and age you should be grateful and understanding of the partners need to take of parents.
2006-11-29 00:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the cost you are paying? If its not anything dramatic then you should be happy to be with someone who cares for the parents.
If you are jealous then you should just try and work on yourself because its silly, if its something more bothersome then talk to your partner.
2006-11-29 00:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by Curious George 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your life partner should obviously have very good communication abilities.......if there is no communication gap between the two of you then you must discus the matter openly with them........however if u both have a newly formed relations plz remember that it will always take time to get fully attached to you and to place you before everyone else.......caring for one's parents shows ability to respect and care and they will definitely do the same for your folks.........so time is the best healer......have patience or work it out with ur spouse........ all the best to u!!!!!!
2006-11-29 00:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life partners mean when some cares for all if he/she is caring 4 yours parents or his parents help him/her.
if you want to spend time with her/him tell that person that u want 2 go out with him/her
talk to that person and solve the problem
2006-11-30 03:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by priya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, understand one thing : Happening so is very very naturally.
This will resolve half of the trouble... and if happen so, ask this question to your life partner.
2006-11-29 18:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your partner, and solve the problem. there should be a proper understanding between wife and husband. otherwise their will be no meaning for marriage.
2006-11-29 16:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its nice that he cares for his/her family.Are you sure you are not a little jealous ? If he/she takes care of you and you are not suffering in any way I would accept this and be proud of such a caring person
2006-11-29 00:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by knowsitallandabitmore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one should have interest upon his/her parents. If it is beyond limit..... that is childish mentality. wait for the time. he/she will become elder and the problem will be solved
2006-11-29 00:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RESPECTING AND CARING PARENTS IS NOT CRIME AND IT IS DUTY OF THE SON TO LOOK AFTER THEM. BUT HE SHOULD EQUIVALENT LOVE HIS PARTNER.
2006-12-01 13:54:38 · answer #10 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋