My sister wants a baby so bad but doesn't have a husband, boyfriend, or life. Everytime my sister comes to my house she sees my kids and starts to cry because she wants a baby of her own so very badly. My husband offered to impregnate my sister, if I didn't have a problem with it. He said that he would mate with her for as long as it took and never give up until she conceived. I don't know if I want my sister to have a baby from my husband. Should I stop being selfish and let him go ahead and fulfil her wish or should I tell my sister to find someone else??
2006-11-29 00:21:46 · 38 answers · asked by mamabag06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Go for it, weren't you taught to share as a little girl.
2006-11-29 00:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by flushing06 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
No way! You are HIS wife... sorry that your sister is having babies, but this isn't your problem. There are sperm banks all over America if she wants children this bad, she has other options. Your marriage will suffer in the long run for this...and whoever said you were being selfish for not letting your husband impregnate your sister? Are you serious? The day you said I DO gave you every right to say NO to this!! And as for the hubby volunteering to do this?! I would certainly question his motives and certainly not leave them alone together now for sure... Your SIS HAS OTHER OPTIONS! This is a no brainer...tell them both the answer is No, save yourself the headache and heartache!
2006-11-29 01:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by Happysunshine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow.
Hell no. Dont let your husband have sex with your sister. Does your husband really care for you or does he just want to have sex with your sister? This is strange; Sounds like your husband is and your sis might have something going on. Look into it. If your sister wants a baby, then she should go to the pregnancy clinics where the doctors will do it on their own. DO NOT have your husband have sex with your sister. You will regret, and things will never be the same.
-James
2006-11-29 00:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by jameswilliamlong 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously a very loving sister to even be considering this option but clearly you have serious doubts and frankly, I don't blame you. At the risk of sounding a bit callous sperm is fairly easy to get hold of, either with the help of fertility clinics or via more conventional means. I believe you can even by it on the internet these days though I know, in the UK at least, there is restrictions on keeping it. It's possible that your husband's motives are purely altruistic, maybe it's safer not to examine them too closely. I doubt that your husband regularly having sex with your sister, until she becomes pregnant, which is likely to take at least 6 to 12 months, possibly longer, will do anything for your relationship.
2006-11-29 00:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Read the story of Jacob, Rachel and Leah in the Bible.... in Genesis. Jacob was forced to marry Leah, when he thought it was Rachel he was marrying. They are sisters. He loved Rachel and was later able to marry her.
The two sisters ended up in a competition to see who could have the most children, to prove that Jacob loved either of them more. They had this resentment build between them.
A wife should not have to share a husband with anyone. For your husband to sleep with your sister is adultry period. And what if he likes sex better with her? What if its new and exciting and they want to do it all the time? What if he loses interest in you.
NO, don't let them do this. It will only cause pain.
2006-11-29 01:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by :-) literary cappy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is just trying to get laid more; if your sister really wanted a baby that badly, she could just see a doctor and get referred to a sperm bank to be inseminated.
If your reply to that is that she can't afford it, then she can't afford to raise an infant - so she should be focusing on her career (assuming there IS one); once she matures enough to not have hissy fits at your kids or be jealous of your family, then she MIGHT sttract her own man and start her own family.
Deal with your husband in any manner you wish, for trying to bag your sister.
2006-11-29 00:29:52 · answer #6 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is weird no you should not let your husband do this can you handle it deal with the thoughts of them have sex for the rest of your life what if he leaves you for her what about all the children they will not be cousins they will be half sisters/brothers thats a little too much theres sperm banks loan her the money to do that even find a stranger would be better
2006-11-29 00:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by allison b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister to find someone else. The kids won't be cousins, they'll be half-siblings. There is no good in having your husband impregnate your sister.
2006-11-29 00:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My Husband **** My Sister
2016-12-12 13:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST SAY NO
Tell her to get therapy. I know I used to want a baby but I think it was for all the wrong reasons, now that I look back on it. What is her reason for wanting a baby?
Mr. Right will come along eventually for her, she needs to be patient.
2006-11-29 00:29:54 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"He said that he would mate with her for as long as it took and never give up until she conceived." Yea...I'm sure he's a very enthusiastic volunteer. Now tell him to go masterbate in a clean jar when she's ready and use a syringe to inject it into her. Some how I think his enthusiasm will be somewhat dampened...LOL
2006-11-29 00:28:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋