We have been together quite some time and I asked him to marry me and he said yes. But now, we really don't mention it either one of us. Which we wear the engagement rings. I call him my fiance and he doesn't call me that yet. I was just wondering if he was serious about marrying me.
2006-11-29 00:16:58 · 13 answers · asked by Danae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
That doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship to me, especially as far as communication goes.
You might want to work on that.
2006-11-29 00:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by *MissNic 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's a little spooked by the whole thing. This doesn't mean he's not willing to commit to you, but the prospect of marriage freaks a lot of men out. Ask him if he still wants to marry you, but don't be pressurising about it. Tell him that you understand if he's not ready, and that you'll wait for him until he is. If you push it too hard you'll scare him away, so make sure he doesn't think you're pressurising him.
2006-11-29 00:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ally 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pardon me for saying this.. i find that u shldnt hv take the initiative to ask him to marry you! We gals hv to be more conservative when come into this sensitive topic. Whether or not he wans to marry u is up to him and im sure that at ur side there shldnt have any problem as u are already prepare. Perhaps to him, he finds that its not the time yet due to some factors yet he doesnt wan to disappoint u in a way of rejection. Talk to him, ask him the reason y arent he not enthu into this marriage.
2006-11-29 13:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by Its me! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe hes thinking the same thing since you havent mentioned it either in my experience men never say yes to something they dont want so you need to talk to him maybe bring home some bridal magazines see what reaction you get from that first or get some brochures for venues id say hes just waiting on you to get things rolling good luck!!!!
2006-11-29 00:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by keevy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
merely like sit down with him and be like we've been the two inebriated final night(or each and every time) and that i think of we suggested issues that we did no longer truthfully mean, properly atleast i did. i do no longer think of we are waiting to take this way of huge step in the direction of marriage, yet i such as you (in case you do) and that i think of it would be superb if we persevered our courting on a similar point it exchange into until eventually now that night.
2016-10-04 12:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound cold, but he probably said yes to shut you up because he didn't want to hear you nag him. I'm not implying that you're a nag, but your BF may precieve you as such.
I've been married 13 yrs and tell my wife 'yes' just to shut her up because I don't want to hear & see her gums flapping.
I personally don't think he is/was serious. If he wants to he will.
2006-11-29 00:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by Larry F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you mention it to him and ask him about it. Maybe he ready to be engaged but not ready to get married.
2006-11-29 00:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by Shonreaq G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he said yes to make you HAPPY.DONT PRESSURE HIM because it might turn out bad.He seems to be taking his time so let him do so.when he is ready his actions will speak louder than words.HANG ON GIRL.
2006-11-29 00:27:17 · answer #8 · answered by Divalicous25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out is to ask him.
2006-11-29 00:19:18 · answer #9 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres only one person who can answer that question and thatis him so sit him down and ask him!
2006-11-29 00:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋