my this friend loves this guy like anything! She can't forget him..but he has no feelings for her...but he showed as if he had some feelings and then had physical relationships with her...he now tells that he never loved her! Says that he has a crush on some1 else! What can she do?she feels cheated...but SHE CAN NOT FORGET HIM!!
2006-11-29 00:14:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and he told her that she's like... a very good friend but also a prostitute! (we all are in late teens.)
2006-11-29 00:16:10 · update #1
She MUST accept the reallity. There is no sense in wasting the precious time of your life for a person who cheated you. She should have no feelings for that guy. There is nothing in loving a person who was interested in your body only. Accept that he doesn't love you, and let him go to Hell. One day you will find your love.
Good Luck for the new start...!!
2006-11-29 00:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by shon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should learn that boys and men will take sex from a willing girl or woman even if they have to lie about love to get it. She should learn that this IS the way males are, and she should never have sex with any of them unless sex is what SHE wants.
Just take it as a lesson learned. This guy is not unusual. He actually taught her a truth about men. There are not many men who will say "no" to sexual opportunity, and most of them will pursue sexual relations without any kind of feelings of love attached to the act.
2006-11-29 00:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sharlene R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing for her to do is regain her confidence. There are some easy ways of doing this. You as her friend can take her shopping, get her some beautiful clothes, new make up. Get your nails done, get her a new hairstyle. Then when she's looking fabulous take her out for a night out so she can have all eyes on her and pull someone else! She doesn't need a man to complete her.
2006-11-29 00:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by Alana B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know its hard but shell have to forget him one day, hes obviously a major dick and thats life i guess.
i had a friend who was with a guy for a little over three years and one day they were having se x and in midst of the se x he broke up with her
guys can be *****. its how life is
tell her your sorry, and that she doesnt need to see him AT all anymore itll make the transition easier
2006-11-29 00:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is that she will forget him in time because he is not worth remembering. In experiencing what she has, she has simply joined millions of other women down thru history. Welcome to our great big club, but don't let it happen again. As they say "fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me!" Good luck to your friend. I hope if he comes slinking around again she can keep her knickers on. She has nothing to gain from this user. He does not respect her, and if she goes along with him she will be failing to respect herself.
2006-11-29 00:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to get over him and assure your friend that her feeling toward him is not love and by time she will forget about him
2006-11-29 00:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by ThE oNe FoR aLl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Learn the lesson that guys generally use "love" to get sex, and girls generally use sex to get love. If she didn't know this before, then obviously she was too immature to be having "sx".
2006-11-29 00:17:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is gonna be tough for her, he played her to get what he wanted...i would say she needs to just go out and forget about him and meet someone else but i know thats easier said than done. this is something that only time will heal...give it time and when shes ready she'll go out met someone new and forget about him
2006-11-29 00:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She just needs to shake it off!! Mistakes were made he got what he came for and is moving on to greener pastures...
Tell her not to take it personally!! It's just a part of the beautiful cycle of that thing we call life...She'll get over him.
2006-11-29 00:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by Sarsippius 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
lets take revenge
2006-11-29 00:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋