I met I guy 5 months ago I am 25 years old and he is 45. We start going out as a friends but we used to kiss and hold hands. He never ask me to be his girlfriend and I never persuade him to do that. We liked each other a lot but then he started changing and I found out he was seeing another girl I am not sure he was going out with her or he was doing the same thing we did. I love the way he used to be with me he made me feel special. The way he is drove me crazy I was so happy to found him. One day he called and we set up we are going to have sex but later on that day he called again and canceled the date because the other girl and since that day he never called me back and I did not either. Is almost 2 months I do not know anything about him. I want to call him. I am sure is really stupid but also I found out life is unpredictable and maybe I will never be able to tell him that but at the same time if he cares about me he should call me by now. I am really confused I need some advice
2006-11-29 00:13:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look you're 25, you're young and have plenty of time to find another guy that suits your personality better! He obviously was using you and felt no romantic connection if he could drop you like that for another woman! Go out tonight with some friends and flirt a little see how many guys respond and get some confidence in yourself because i think thats what you need!
2006-11-29 00:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by tulip 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not suitable to you. Believe me.Maybe I am not good at answering such questions. But I 'll give you advice.Don't fall in the love so quickly. He is old and you are young, he should value you,but he didn't. And don't love him again.Because he has already done the bad thing to you and maybe he will do it again. Try to find another boyfriend that is suitable to you. There should be someone near you to comfort. Tell it to your best friend if you want to. Maybe your friend will give you some advices,too.Don't be so upset. I wish you will be happy and lucky ever after!
2006-11-29 08:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not the right person for you. your too young and you have many more years to find the right one. love is painful because it would first let you experience all kinds of emotions and feelings then tell you the lesson. its really hard to risk your heart but it worth trying cause you'll never know,maybe the one your risking to is the one. many people risk because they want to experience the feeling to be in loved. about the guy, the guy just show you that he dont need you anymore. he is like playing at you,while you, still waiting for him,broke your heart everyday. he just like use you to have some fun. but, if there's pain, there would be happiness later on.
2006-11-29 08:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by My_Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It not as if you'll guys were having a relationship or something.His a man and a man is a dog so don't waste u time thinking what he is busy doing and with whom get a life and move on.
2006-11-29 08:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is a total jerk. and you should NOT have agreed to have sex with him when he called - I am glad he cancelled and if he ever calls again tell him to get lost. he is totally using you! you say why is love painful - this isn't love!!! love isn't painful!!! love is meant to make you feel happy and good about yourself - not sad and used. you deserve better! find someone else who really WILL love you!!! all the best.
2006-11-29 08:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this going to happen in some of you pursuits for love and some just leed into dead ends just take it smooth and realx a bit
so you can take all that has happened to you then decicide how your going to tell him your head over heels for him good luck
2006-11-29 08:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by Isaiah C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everything that is not natural is painful.
anal, putting a poker in your eye, swallowing broken glass, love....lucky people learn with some things and dont keep trying it, but with others...people never seem to learn.
2006-11-29 08:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't fall into love fall into like
love gets your window busted
like gets you a teddy bear
2006-11-29 08:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋