Well I woke up this morning at 4am to the sound of me cell phone. I picked it and It was my boyfriend and he asked me if I wanted to have sex with him.And i still cant get his words out of head and I'm only 17 turning 18 next mounth.
2006-11-28 23:59:36 · 16 answers · asked by Angela R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That you are not ready. If he can not accept that then you need to move on.
2006-11-29 00:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by redbull_photo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you;re thinking seriously about it before deciding is very wise beyond your years - well done. I just want to say that he has no right to pressure you into it. SOO many times people regret having sex, but very very seldom to people regret NOT having sex (so in other words, you are more likely to regret it if you do it than if you dont). just chil - you're young. AND what the hell is he doing phoning you at 4am to ask you? that is totally inappropriate sweetie! what is up with that? I'm still in shock about the way he asked you :) dont rush into anythign with this guy!!!! believe me!
2006-11-29 08:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isnt a decision anyone can make for you. Some people will say go for it. Others will say its better to wait that they wished they did. But ultimately it is for what is best for you. If you feel like you are ready and that you really want to be with him go for it but if you have any doubt in your mind about whether you should or not like it seems you have now I would not take the chance and regret it later. I hope this helps. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-29 08:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kat A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ready go for it. But if he just called at 4 in the morning then that doesn't sound good. If he has mentioned this a lot and your not ready, tell him! You don't have to do anything you don't want to even if he is your bf.
2006-11-29 08:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by ¤My Goodies¤ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't, please don't... your to young for that, believe me, I know the feeling of losing your virgin and crying afterwards... It’s terrible! Your still innocent and keep it like that, till you are ready. Here on yahoo a girl asked the same question and everybody told her to wait and she didn’t! Then we heard from her again and she was heartbroken... Don't go through the same thing,. Remember this boy is still a boy, they only realize the importance of sex round about the age of 24. B wise, think twice. Do you love him, does he love you?
2006-11-29 08:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by confussie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4am is a little early for that kind of question... Unless you are in the same bed at the time!!!! :D
Are you interested in sex with him??? If yes, go for it - but get protection... If no, then tell him no...
2006-11-29 08:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel pressured by him. If you feel like it then do it. But it seems like you're not ready. I think you should just wait until you are ready and only make ur decision based on how YOU feel and not bcuz he wants you to. Tell him No, until you are ready.
2006-11-29 08:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by Virgo Fa Sho!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to get involved in a committed relationship with rampant sexual behavior being the force that draws you together.
2006-11-29 08:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by BS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it not the best way to approach the subject with you. He was probably drunk and horny and not thinking of your feelings. Not very romantic. If it is your first time it should be special. I would definately pass!
2006-11-29 08:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by daintree4eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long you have been dating... i dated my first boyfriend at that age for seven weeks before i did anything... It depends on how you feel. Don't rush just to keep him do it when you feel right.
2006-11-29 08:03:04 · answer #10 · answered by catdogpenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋