if i think my man is cheating and i have a pretty decent idea who the other woman is should i confront her? i confronted my boyfriend and he said that nothing was going on and im over reacting because this sorta thing happened before and i was wrong(thank goodness) we just got back together and im not completely sure im the only one this time especially since this chick is one of his ex's he wasnt in love they were basically sex buddies and im still a little jealous and insecure what do i do and if i did call what do i say? please help my hearts breaking by the second am i over reacting again or am i dangerously on cue?
2006-11-28 23:47:23 · 7 answers · asked by jinx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when me and my beau first got to gether "The Other Woman" and her sister started talking gossip about me and my boyfriend saying a lot of racist things (i'm black and white and hes just white and we live in a redneck community) TOW's sister has even gone as far as to tell me that my beau was cheating on me with TOW when he was out of town for a month so i know they are liars and my ex best friend tried to break us up too by saying that he cheated on me and even some of his family my beau has cheated on me once and he was drunk at a party and the chick kissed him but that was it my real friends witnessed it and took him home and told me and i waited to see if he would tell me about it before confronting him he actually did. but two weeks ago we broke up because he was insecure about our engagement. we have just got back together a week ago and TOW has been texting him and calling he told me today that he called her and told her not to call or text him again....i
2006-11-29 00:09:31 · update #1
Well, if he is cheating and you already accused him of it, Im sure he has already called this other girl and warned her...so you'll get no where with her. Gotta find a different way to bust him...ever consider following him
2006-11-28 23:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to call her. If you want to be with this man and the woman denies it and he finds out you may actually lose him if he didnt cheat on you. I was told that my man cheated on me and then I found out he couldnt have because he was in jail at the time. They may or may not be cheating but trust me if they are he will screw up eventually or shell call and hang up or something stupid like that. I think that you still need to establish trust with this guy I dont think that you completely believe in him. Give him a shot and see if your feeling goes away. Good Luck!
2006-11-29 07:56:24 · answer #2 · answered by Kat A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were wrong before, it's a big possibility you could be wrong again.
I doubt this other woman will be honest with you if you try and confront her. IF their relationship was just sexual, why would she want to miss out on one of her sex buddies?
Try and have real evidence about your feelings, before you go off jumping the gun and making yourself look wrong once again.
2006-11-29 07:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may need to hire an investigator. Yes it may cost money but what would be worse, getting married and sharing your husband? DO NOT CALL HER !
This is a common mistake and you may be barking up the wrong tree...It could make you look like a freak..
2006-11-29 07:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by Pumpkins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maintain your dignity. Don't call her and leave him. If you are insecure it will kill the relationship anyway eventually. If you are always going to worry and wonder then you need to break it off now before your heart really breaks completely.
2006-11-29 07:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by empress_pam 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl get out he already said enough when you confronted him.
2006-11-29 07:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really don't understand why would u want to call her and confront her. so what would u say? stay away from my bf? she would tell u go molest yourself and will be right. preserve your dignity woman, what is meant to be will be
2006-11-29 07:55:20 · answer #7 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋