okay so ive been meetin my best mate(whos a lad) and weve become a lil too close recently....then the other night we got a bit carried away and i didnt realise what i was doing until it happened...we was outside not prepared...im not on the pill and we didnt use anything but after a couple of minutes i panicked and pushed him away now i really dont know what to do...
2006-11-28 23:47:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ooops, you should have got the morning after pill
2006-11-28 23:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have 72 hours to use the morning after pill. So if this was just a few nights ago, and this is something you want to do, go quickly. Planned Parenthoods offer this easily. Find the one nearest you. If not you're personal doctor can also help you out. But you can walk into planned parenthoods without an appointment for the morning after pill.
2006-11-29 07:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to your doctor or family planning clinic for the morning after pill asap. You can get it from a chemist that stocks it but you will have to pay a lot if you do that. As for your mate if that is an issue just explain why you pushed him a way. If he is a true friend he will understand and support you.
2006-11-29 07:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by itgirl23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like it was the heat of the moment thing, and you are attracted to him as he is you......BUT, if you don't want the lad to give you a BUN IN THE OVEN,,,,you need to be prepared next time,,,,as far pushing him away,,,maybe you were over whelmed by the passion and freaked out and had to get loose of him,,,so you didn't loose all sense of control,,,,It sounds to me like you like him, and aren't quite sure if you should,,,,and ya know,,,love and life are about chance,,,and you may never know until you try,,,do you like him? are you attracted to him? would you date him?
If you answered yes to these questions, then maybe you should give it a chance,,,,,,
Have you known him a long time?
Are you both single?
He is obviousloy attracted to you, and maybe you should try talking to him and ask him what is up? why things are turning more intimate with your friendship, and if that is something that he is wanting, and if so what is he expecting?
If however you don't want anything with him, except a friendship,,,,then I definately would set the BOUNDARIES,,,,,and don't get carried away in the moment,,,,or you may be carrying something for 9 months,,,,,
GOOD LUCK,,,
and consider if you like him before you write him off, sometimes the best friends, make for the best lovers, and partners, that you could imagine,,,maybe he is your prince, and you never knew it,,,,
Hope i helped a little,,,
DAPHNE
2006-11-29 08:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by Daphne F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it - seeing as you're best mates he probably feels the same way and after a while you should be able to just get on with stuff once you've noth made it clear to each other that it was just an accident and you got too carried away
2006-11-29 07:51:39 · answer #5 · answered by hello772345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think how you feel about him, think did you push him away because you didn't want to or because he is your friend and you're not sure if you should be doing it because of that?? Do you like him in that way?? If you need the morning after pill then go to the doctors and explain why you need one??
Good luck Hun x
2006-11-29 07:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by sparkling Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have got the morning after pill.....all you can do now is wait and hope you get the result you want. Always carry a condom for those outside moments
2006-11-29 07:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by pinkkitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey just coz you pushed him away does not mean that you wont get pregnant, if you actually did it with him then it could be likely that you have been caught, a man does not have to ejaculate to get a girl pregnant, it can happen before ejaculation as some semen i released during sex....silly girl for not taking precautions, silly him for not thinking either, if i were you i would get straight down to the clinic and get a pregnancy test....there's more than one form of birth control these days....so there's no excuse, you had a moment of madness there hun, do be more careful if it happens again...i don't think you want to be tied down with a bunch of kids at your age...do you?
2006-11-29 08:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only choice is the morning after pill to be on the safe side - now.
2006-11-29 08:07:33 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morning after pill?
2006-11-29 07:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morning after pill - NOW.
You can buy it from Boots or any pharmacy for about £20 - alternatively you can make an emercency doctors appointment and get it for free.
2006-11-29 07:56:19 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋