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my father is an careless man but we live with him..me, my mother, and my brothers..now after being one year with my bf should i tell him about my father.i know it will not change his feeling toward me but still its difficult for me to say that..when i say to him would he think i wasnt honest with him..?

2006-11-28 22:51:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I was facing this questions 2 years ago, should i tell his mother that my father was jobless, and my mother is working partime to support my family, and my sister and i had to work to feed the family, should i tell her i was earning 800plus bucks while her son is earning 4k per month, i go ahead and confessed, 2 weeks later my bf told me her mother sobbed and plead him not to go out with me, that i could not help the family, a few weeks after that he got a new girlfriend, i was thinking what if i lied, and we got married, how would the mother insult me, what kind of faces they would show me, if you ever want to have a further relationship with the man you are going out with, be frank, either way you will not be so painful inside. Like me, i never regret that i told them the truth. This way i respect the man who gives life to me, no matter what wrong he do. And you should give support for him to quit, other things, can wait till later.

2006-11-28 23:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by jade s 4 · 0 0

Of COURSE, tell him. Look, one of the severe symptoms of the disease you father suffers with is hiddeness and it will help you if learn to be open rather than hidden. Secrets and not talking about problems that are obvious are crippling in the long run. Your father is sick and you suffer from his disease.

2006-11-29 07:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0 0

i think u should let him know..if he's committed to u,i think it's not gong to be a bad thing u know?try letting him know and he'll go thru this situation with u and u both can and wiill appreciate each other even better..it is when both of u go thru challenging situations will both of u care more for one another..dont keep secrets from ur partner..it's not goin to be easy but u can learn to accept each other's real self..

2006-11-29 06:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by alexgnot 2 · 0 0

don't tell him now..take it easy and say it in the right time..and i don't think it's shameful to tell him, your father is the addicted not YOU. good luck.

2006-11-29 06:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by ~*Angel Of Fallen Stars*~ 2 · 0 0

How about give him a shotgun and ask him to pull the trigger? What are you thinking?

2006-11-29 06:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

There is trust in telling the truth...

2006-11-29 06:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by dodadz 4 · 0 0

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