What is love ?

Question

What is actually love how can u tell if its for real ?

Answer 1

love is when you can accept everything about your partner
love is when you feel good when he comes in a room
love is when you feel good and warm inside when you see him
love is when you feel happy with him
love is great!!
love is love when you have great chemistry

Answer 2

Love is a human need. We all need to feel love and give love to feel truly fulfilled. Falling in love is, in a sense, a selfish thing. For instance, if you feel that you are falling in love with someone it is perhaps not actually them that you are falling in love with? I mean it is the feeling you have (the need being fulfilled - or the initial sense of) that seems so special. Well, it would wouldn't it it? After all it may be a need that has been unfulfilled for so long, or perhaps never even partly fulfilled (first love).
I believe that the closest we can ever come to "true love" with another person is when we accept the feelings for what they are. That is that love is essentially about ourselves. We are like pieces of a jig-saw in that we sometimes meet another person who fits really nicely. The problem is we (unlike the jig-pieces) continue growing. Sometimes the other piece grows differently and we no longer fit together.
This may sound negative re love but really it isn't. You just have to think about it?
Michael

Answer 3

I think if you had ever been in real love, you wouldn't be asking this question,,,,

To me, real love is like being in a crowded room full of people, and the only two people you can hear breathing is you and her/him,

Seeing the sun light up the universe like it did when the lord descended upon the earth for the first time,,,,

like riding a wave, that never ends, and no matter what you do you never lose you balance, or fall

having a bad day, and your partner knowing and not saying a word, and just giving you a hug,,,

an un-explainable sense of trust and communication, that no one or nothing can ever come between,,,,

I don't think love is in books or on TV, I think that everyone has that special someone out there for them, and unfortunately I have never known true love,,,,,just infatuation,,,,,and I hold on to the fact that one day, I will find true love,,,,and it will be undescribeable,,,,,,,

I think love is a wonderful thing, that only so few of us truly find,,,I think more often, we tend to confuse love with infatuation,,,,

which infatuation, is alot like love, except,,,their is doubt,,,,doubt in your partner, your love,,,,trust,,,communication,,,you tend to be upset and argue and fight,,,and their isn't that internal kindness,,,that feeling that comes from your soul, and you know that before you lay your head down to go to bed, you have to tell him/her goodnight one more time,,,,,or you just have to hear their voice one more time, or see their face, or touch their hand,,,,you just want to keep them close to you and protect them from all the bad in the world,,,,


I have two little boys and for me that is an unconditional love that I will always have, and I'am very appreciative of that, and I know in my heart they will always love me no matter what,,,,,,,and so will my true love,,,,,,

I hope i made sense to you,,,,and i hope you see the difference,,,,at least to me anyways,,,


Thanks for listening,,,
DAPHNE

Answer 4

Love is a feeling ,hardly can explain a feeling ,just like you feel sleepy ,can you explain that?
But i know when we're in love we just feel it in our hearts ,easily we can say it's real when it grows with time .We get tired of the person if it is not true love ,but true loves will last a lifetime!

Answer 5

Love is a question that gets asked a lot round here!

Answer 6

honey... love is overrated!
Love is only a reason for people doing the most outrageous things in life...
if you like someone, please understand the real reason for that feeling. before jumping the gun, at least you know why and how...
cheers...

Answer 7

hmmm i have seen this question before,
'you just know,' nothing bothers you about them, you smile when you see hear/ from them, you cant stop looking at them, the chemistry is intense, and you get on well, no arguments,you understand him well,well thats what i think about my parter anyway, and i know he is the once and he knows i am the one!
and trust. you trust who you love

Answer 8

It's for real if your adrenaline rises up when you'll see
the person you love...

Answer 9

love is god