im 21 from the uk. im very wary of getting into relationships coz they just seem to fucx up. im a genrally nice guy who cares for the people close to me. the area i live in i have this bad boy image (which i dont do on purpose), i smoke, drink,got tattoos, been in prison (long story before anyone judges me for it)
wen im with a girl im caring towards her but not over caring as i know alot of girls dont like this, i usually get on with there families quite well. i have had different types of girlfriends with different personalities as im a very open minded type of person. i dont cheat, i always speak my mind, i dont lie, i would never hit a woman, i dont treat em like **** so why when ever i find a girl it always goes the same way, Them cheating on me and me getting the sh-t for it?????? i will never understand women
2006-11-28 22:40:23 · 16 answers · asked by mouse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Those girls don't deserve you babe.
You sound like the perfect guy!!
You just seem to be falling for the wrong girls. I don't think you need to change. Stay as you are!!
I cannot help you find the right girl but keep trying. There are some nice ones out there for you. Don't constantly be with girls tho as you might get a rep. Just carry on with your life.
You don't need a girl. If you be yourself they will come to you and learn to love you for you. I guess they are attracted to the bad boy image they see and expect your attitude to be the same. Good job its not tho as you sound like a genuine guy!!
Some of us women are nice and would appreciate a partner like you. There is one out there for you babe. Just have to be patient!!
Sorry if that is not much help but hope you find someone special!!
2006-11-28 22:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to work out what part of your question you are looking for an answer for. So this is just my opinion....
If all the things you say about yourself when you are in a relationship are true then your lack of success is most likely due to the women you are choosing. You say they are different types with different personalities, but ask yourself if there are any common factors. Or, look at your past relationships and try to see some connection. Did they all finish for similar reasons? Are there any arguments that you have had with all of them? If so then this could help point out a trend of behaviour that you should try to break either by choosing different women or by reacting to these same arguments differently.
You should also consider the possibility that without knowing you are actually doing something to make these relationships fall apart. Sometimes we sabotage our own relationships because of problems or reasons we didn't know we had. Are you being totally honest with yourself? Only you can know.
But on the plus side, you are only 21. That's really young for finding a longterm serious relationship. You have plenty of time to meet the right person. Try not to let the failures in your past affect your new relationships. Just have some fun and eventually you will find a woman who treats you right.
Good luck , I hope it all works out for you.
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2016-05-18 20:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like maybe even though you are finding women with different personalities they may all have something in common...they don't have alot of values where sex and staying faithful are concerned.
You need to look for a girl who is maybe a little more reserved. Make sure you don't move too fast and get too involved so quickly. If I were you I would leave out details like prison until you feel comfortable that she would be able to accept that. I don't know if laying it out on the table right up front is always the best thing. I don't see anything wrong with tattoos (I have three of them myself ;-) not to mention my piercings....
Maybe you might want to consider changing certain aspects of your bad boy image if you think it affects the kind of women you attract. Smoking is bad for you anyway and drinking in excess only kills your liver.
I am glad to hear that you are respectful of women. It just sounds like maybe because you are known for certain things in your past and perhaps judged for them that you are attracting the wrong women. I would look elsewhere for prospective girlfriends who would be less likely to know about your past and your habits.
Take care....
2006-11-28 22:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK - I drink, I smoke, I have tattoos! But I ain't no bad boy either. I am gettin married next year, after being with my gf for 7 years.
I would honestly say it's your choice in women that seems to be the problem. Maybe you come across as a walkover (and I am not saying you are). I don't know. Whatever you do, don't give up! Btw - how old are these girls you are dating? Are they emotionally mature enough to deal with relationships?
2006-11-28 22:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by blueeyedboy3004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hunny,,we say the same kinda thing about men I'm afraid,,OK you've been in trouble before but hey we've all got a past,,you seem like quite a nice honest young guy now thoe,,good to hear it, and as for understanding women,half of us can't even understand ourselves,,don't give up and don't try to hard one day it will all work out and hopefully Ur find the girl of your dreams,,mind u your only 21,I'm 40 and still trying,,men i just can't figure them out!!! keep smiling.
2006-11-28 22:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by kimble 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, u re only 21 and already had many women. when did u start - at 12? in any case, 21 is too early to judge anybody even if u think now that u re the smartest amn on earth. u re not. and i suggest u go study somewhere nice and then get a nice job and a career, otherwise u will be 31 soon, lonely and mogly and depressed and still won't understand women. who needs to understand them anyway? u give them presents, take them nice places, no need to understand them to have sex with them
2006-11-28 22:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u poor little lamb lol..girls who r judgemental aint worth it,ur worth more than that..n its good u speak ur mind there aint nuffin wrong with that..i do it all the time!!! u just need to concerntate on u at the minute n girls will happen when they happen tho if youve loadsa love 2 ive im free..best of luck and im sure ul b fine xx
2006-11-28 23:52:57 · answer #9 · answered by greyhound mummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you sound so sweet,Maybe your going for the wrong women.
Dont worry with a personality like that you will find the right one just dont get taken advantage off.
2006-11-28 22:43:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋