I am really struggling with this. I feel worthless because I will never measure up.
2006-11-28 22:38:20 · 15 answers · asked by JJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I may be naive, but I don't get why you (or other women) let a model make YOU "feel worthless". Do you think less of your boyfriend because some other man in this world is a) smarter b) has more money c) has more muscle or d) can do something -- whatever it is -- better? Your boyfriend likes looking at a pretty girl in a bikini. That's ALL it is. It has NOTHING to do with you. Besides, these women don't even look like that in real life anyway. Clothing is made especially for them, they get their hair styled and make-up put on for hours, pictures are re-touched. Like any other woman in this world, you can do some things better than her, she can do others better than you. It's not a contest if you don't make one out of it. Do things for YOURSELF, don't worry about anyone else!
2006-11-28 22:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by clueless_nerd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody likes to see beautiful things. That doesn't mean ur bf doesn't like u, or is comparing u to the models, or is not satisfied by the way u are.
You do not have to measure up as you are not in a competition. He is your guy. If he loves you, let him c what he wants, he will always come to you for what he really wants.
2006-11-28 22:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by Pluto 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it does not mean that. It has nothing at all to do with you. He could be with a bikini model and would still look at other women.
2006-11-28 22:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that does not mean so... he is like that & you can accept him like that or leave him. but looking at the bikini models does not mean that you are bad or something like this.
2006-11-28 22:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't look good in a bikini try wearing nothing at all.
2006-11-28 22:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by victorschool1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. I'm sure you check them out too an think she's pretty, He is just doing the same thing, the only difference is you do it to guys also!
2006-11-28 22:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it just means you might lack in some areas. try getting a bikini and wearing it in front of him. see what happens.
2006-11-28 22:42:24 · answer #7 · answered by acampion2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey guys will always will be guys lol just like my man and i like checking out guys and everything when I'm with him as well but it doesn't mean I'm going to go out with them or anything its just life i love my man and everything and he loves me to but its good to look at other people as well but don't touch lol
it doesn't mean you have to look like them cos the image is nothing they may look good but they may not have what you have which makes your man love you for who u are in the inside and the outside so yeah
2006-11-28 22:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by lena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont feel bad.if he loves you ,then he wont be expecting 4m u to be any thing different 4m ur self.so be confident and life ur life just the way u are.
2006-11-28 22:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it, the thing with us guys is, its only the ones who have everything what want more
2006-11-28 23:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by yasiru89 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋