My mind telling me its wrong and so I'm controlling it. I am 30 and single
2006-11-28 22:38:12 · 15 answers · asked by Matthew Web 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its probably illegal and could be being watched by police.
2006-11-28 22:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by epbr123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you have got the brothel into your head, irrespective of what anyone says, curiosity is likely to kill the cat. My suggestion is to introspect why you want to go to a brothel.
- If it is because you need short term company from the opposite sex without commitment, these days you can get it from a bar/nightclub pretty much the same stuff without worrying about the legal hassles. But do you really want to be hanging out with such women (professional or amateur or whatever you call these types you meet in the bars/brothels)? Do you know what can be the aftereffects mentally and physically for you by being with women who do not associate sex with love and commitment?
- If it is because you are single and lonely and need long term company. have you seriously thought about getting married with the right kind of person and then having sex combined with love which can make it so much better?
- If its just sex and bodily needs have you considered the highly uncomplicated pastime of renting a DVD and using a hands-on approach if you know what I mean? No one gets hurt and after the high you will be asking yourself why did I even think of such a risky venture.
2006-11-28 23:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by kalyan19677 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This intrigues me. How did you initally know it was a brothel? How did you happen to 'stumble across' their web-site? So many interesting questions!
There is so much to weigh up here. If it would give you pleasure and be an exciting novel thing to do, then give it a go!
If, on the other hand, you are going to be wracked with guilt if you make a visit, and worry about how morally wrong it was, then of course don't!
Only you know how this balances out for you personally.
Just remember, if you go only engage in 'safe sex'!
2006-11-28 22:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by PhD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you live? Is prostitution legal in your country? Do you want to go there for fun or are you looking for a GF experience? Remember, whorehouses are there for one purpose: To get you off with your fantasy woman under your control. If you're expecting a relationship out of it, you're going to be just as disappointed as you are with your dating life, because hookers aren't interested in your woes or heartaches. And don't listen to those morons that tell you about AIDS and STD's...they are probably healthier than you are, because they work in the arena 7 days a week and know all the precautions, unlike the novices making the statements!
2006-11-28 22:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a really good way to mess up your life. STD's etc. not worth the risk, not to mention it's just plain wrong.
2006-11-28 22:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by h M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with it at all. your single so that doesnt mean your going behind anyones back. your 30 so why not. have fun :D
2006-11-28 22:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by vikki b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur single so must be wanting some fun so go 4 it
2006-11-28 22:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by Craig C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a grown man? woman? don't you feel capable of making your own mind up, you don't need to ask permission for something like this...
2006-11-28 22:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by prairiegurrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want AIDS or another disease, go. WHy would anyone have to pay for sex in this day and age? Go to a bar and get it.
2006-11-28 22:40:49 · answer #9 · answered by noitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do dont get caught by the police
2006-11-28 22:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by cartman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋