How does everyone feel abouy dating someone who is divorced & 1 teen- but running into their ex.??

Question

this woman I talked to over the phone said her ex has visitation rights with the teen & when he came over he helped her with
something. I sort of prefer someone who's ex is not
around.has anyone had similar expoeriences with
something like this???

Answer 1

are you aware that not everyone has baby momma/daddy drama in their lives just because the parents aren't together. are you secure with yourself? if not then don't date someone with children. it's ok and don't worry about it, lots of people fee lthat way. some people just don't like kids. but if you do decide to date some one with childen, then you have no choice but to deal with it. that parent gets visitation with his/her kid/s and it's not about the mother/father or you. they're divorced for a reasnon. would you rather the parents didn't get along and the child to suffer for your insecurities? and what about the child that may not care for you, thinking you're trying to replace the natural parent? the relationship between child and parent is important, none of anyone business (unless it's abusive) and not about you. lot at is as a positive, the parent is able to visit the kind at the kids home with maturity and knowledge that the kids mother has moved on.

Answer 2

you're going to have to deal with it because they have a child together. whether you like it or not, the ex will always be in the picture. it seems to me that the issue isn't with the ex, it's with you. you seem to have a trust issue. do you trust her? then realize that he's an "ex" for a reason and she chose to be with you. did someone cheat on you in the past? or have you cheated? whatever the case may be, get over it. be secure with yourself and trust the relationship.

Answer 3

don't make yourself servious when playing relationship. you might suffer at the end.

Answer 4

run, if it bothers you.