I'm in love with a 60 years old man, a married man.I don't know what i should do.?

Question

I'm 20 years old.He really care for me and i also.I'm a student and i stay in a rent apartament with 3 friends, in the town i have my faculty.i don't have the money to pay my rent anymore and my lover offered me to stay in his apartament, an empty one. that means a lot of thinks, good or bad. i'm not stupid. i know my situation. i don't know what to do. he's a gentleman with me but i'm a little scared. actually, i don't know what to think, what to feel, what to do.

Answer 1

ewww just picture his old balls
nasty
get a job and someone your own age
you realize how many presidents hes lived thru not to mention
how many pair of under-ware I'm sorry but that age gap
is a little sickening even for me and my wife is 8 years younger than me

Answer 2

If you don't feel comfortable in this situation don't do it. Maybe you cannot see another solution because you are not looking hard enough or you are only looking in one direction.
It is true that he is kind to you but it looks like you think the payment for this kindness is too high. If you really, really loved him, there would be no confusion, you would have gone ahead and done it and no one would have been able to stop you. Nothing is for free. Examine the price of this particular situation and if you feel you will be compromising your self-respect don't go ahead. Tough situations don't last. Tough people do.

Answer 3

dont spoil your education and life by loving a person who is 60 . he has a family.if you continue loving him you will come at a stage when there will be no coming back and you will get hands in spoiling his family matters also. you can love him by giving him respect of an elder . stop loving him by getting involved into your education and freinds . just think of him as an elder
for the apartment issue you should consider that does he deal with you physically or not when you meet him.(i mean touching you more often) or does he say some loveable sentences
if he touches you more often the chance is he will be having sex with you
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Answer 4

This makes no sense. My advice is this...Get job and become independent. You don't need anyone. Then, lose the 60 yr. old man. He is married and not yours. Respect that. Besides if he cheats with you, he will cheat on you! Then get some classes. Your writng is unclear and leads me to think that there is a language barrier here. Learn to read and write better so you can get a better job and an apartment by yourself. Good luck.

Answer 5

You all ready know that it's wrong or you would not feel sick inside looking for others to either justify your actions, or somehow give you permission. Besides the simple facts, that he won't leave her, for example, what will you tell people? How can you live a lie or would you just tell anyone who asked that he loves you so it's fine?
What about his wife and children, can you put yourself in their place? Could you look your father in the eye and make HIM understand?

Answer 6

nicely there is not any longer something incorrect with that, yet only make certain that he isn't any longer using you for something because of the fact he's sufficiently old to be your dad. assorted previous adult males decide for sturdy finding youthful women. only be careful, yet once you have confidence one yet another and you love one yet another then decide for it, next time you date somebody decide for somebody in basic terms a sprint youthful nevertheless, in case you ever had young toddlers with him then what could your toddlers experience like, i recommend they could probable get teased. Be risk-free.

Answer 7

If you are interested to enjoy and some time together with all the precautions to not get pregnant , do go ahead . Do not get involve emotionally , i mean don't agree to live there with him forever or permanently . If you feel otherwise , do not encourage his gesture or invitations . This is for sure ,he wants to sleep with you more often . If you are ready take decision wisely and intelligently . Good luck!

Answer 8

I think you should turn him down, afterall he's a married man, unless you want to be a homewrecker. Just think about his wife, loosing her husband at an old age, how sad it is. But to you, you are still young you have so many choices in front of you. You got to think about it.

Answer 9

May December relationships rarely work---I just think by reading what you wrote---you're using this dear old man as a SUGAR DADDY---because you're broke, can't pay your rent and would rather prostitute yourself out then call home to your parents for HELP----

I use the term prostitute because that is exactly what you're doing---trading your goods for services you render to this dear old man----and he pays you with gifts, rent, and probably spending money too----I think that is what is classified as prostitute!!! READ BELOW AND YOU DECIDE

Definition:

1. somebody paid for sexual intercourse: somebody who is paid to provide sexual intercourse or other sex acts
2. somebody who degrades talent for money: somebody who uses a skill or ability in a way that is considered unworthy, usually for financial gain

Definition:
1. misuse something for gain: to use a skill or ability in a way that is considered unworthy, usually for financial gain
He has been accused of prostituting his talent by appearing in TV commercials.
2. work or offer somebody as prostitute: to offer somebody or yourself for sexual intercourse or other sex acts in exchange for money

Answer 10

As you sell yourself out, remember he is married. There's another person who has done nothing to you who stands to have their life torn apart by your decision. The crazy thing is, he won't leave her for you I can guarantee that. Do they have kids? If so there's another layer of people that you two are violating. Good news is they're probably older then you so they'll bounce back ok.