i had a friend and had developed a special kind of relationship, but i just cant keep close to him because he's falling for me.im in a relationship right now and want to keep the relationship, and i dont have plans of being involved in a friendship that tends to fall right in the place called love.that's why for now, he abhors me so much.i want to keep his friendship.but is that his way of gettin out of me, or is that his way of forgetting me?what should i do?he's very dear to me, but i cant have him for a boyfriend.
2006-11-28 21:33:27 · 12 answers · asked by Loren 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pray for that person
2006-11-28 21:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, u have first to give him some hint while u r talking that u are already in a seriouse relationship....don't say that word by wrod but in some sinniky way around ..... and let him her always that u consider him as a real bro. or something like that and that u respect him alot .... slowely he will discover how u think of him...and hopefully he get the same point of view about u!
2006-11-29 05:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by architect 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, it is kind of up to you to be the adult right now, just tell him straight up that you and him can't be more than friends. If he is an adult he will accept it and support you as a good friend, if not then let him go. Sometimes it is unavoidable and you have to let someone go because of your feelings, he is not necessarily not an adult if he lets you go.
2006-11-29 05:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is?are you falling for him too??if you do,thats a big problem.anway the least you can do is to give yourself time to think if its worth it to have him in your life.and if you truly love your bf let him know the situation between you and your friend..just be honest to yourself.. ( ;
2006-11-29 06:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by bluewave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is dealing with it, and struggles.I wouldn`t interfere to it. Stay away for awhile, or untill he finds another girl.
2006-11-29 05:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have explained all this to him and he can't accept that then he's no friend you'd want. If he doesn't respect your wishes then forget him
2006-11-29 05:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth
2006-11-29 05:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by I'm In Love With Delicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him frankly makes him knows of your feeling, how it is affecting you and what you expected of him
2006-11-29 05:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him or Love him.
2006-11-29 05:37:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to f*ck off or try to hook him up with someone so his attention will be else where
2006-11-29 05:36:02 · answer #10 · answered by you. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could it be possible that you love him too? that's why him hating you is bothering you so much
2006-11-29 05:45:30 · answer #11 · answered by unicorn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋