i really into this guy. ive stayed over his house in his bed a few times.we have kissed only coz am really shy.
when i left his house in the morning, he text me saying "would you have f****** if you were not on the blob!"this is the only time he has mentioned sex.
is he trying to see if i like him?i have been abit of a c*** tease with him.
2006-11-28 21:14:31 · 19 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, he's trying to see how easy it is to get in your pants.
2006-11-28 21:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by serena3116 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, the only time he mentions sex is in a totally crude way??
He's not seeing if you like him (maybe then the question would be "do you like me?") To base whether you like him or not on sex is juvenile at best! I wouldn't even bother with him.
You are NOT a pr!ck tease, you are a woman with a right to agree or NOT agree to sex. If you like a guy WHY should you sleep with him before you feel comfortable?!!
Shouldn't the question be the other way? If HE likes you, then HE'LL wait!!
NEVER have sex with someone just because they make you feel like you should- seriously, doesn't everyone figure this out from Cosmo by the age of 16?
If a man likes you, he'll wait. If he asks why you didnt f**k him them he's a dick and should be left alone with his hand to think about what a tosser he is (pun intended).
On a practical note, tell him you like him but aren't ready for sex yet. If it makes it 'easier' for him, stop sleeping over until you ARE ready. If you can't communicate with each other you DEFINITELY shouldn't be having sex with him (if you can't say "i like you but dont want sex yet" how can you say "do you have a condom, i don't like this, I prefer it when you do this"?)
Think hard about how his message made you feel: if its guilty and a bit dirty, get shot of him. At this stage he should still be treating you like a princess- who wants to sleep with someone who DOESNT treat you like a princess??!!
2006-11-29 05:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by spagbolfordinner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yes, you are certainly a tease. There must have been a time when you weren't on when you were in his bed if you've been over a few times.
You can't be that shy to sleep in his bed when you have your period now can you.
2006-11-29 08:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is 'on the blob'?
Your answer is full of contraditions - you say you are shy but also that you have been a bit of a '****-tease'.
Perhaps you are delirious and need to lie down.
Not with him though.
2006-11-29 05:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's saying, would you have ****ed him if he would of slept in the *um stains instead of you... Not sure if that's right but he sounds like a nob-jockey who's only after some rumpy pumpy. Don't let guys use you find someone who will care for you instead.
2006-11-29 05:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by phobzy85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you definitely have been a tease by staying in his bed!!lol You go girl you definitely have to tease them a little make them earn it.
2006-11-29 05:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep teasing and see. you might lose him but then again after a while you might think hes the best thing since sliced bread.
2006-11-29 05:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having just read your other 35 questions I think it's about time you settled down and got married......
2006-11-29 05:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt bother with him. any guy that asks to sleep with you like that IS NOT WORTH IT. it sounds like hes only after one thing. get out of there before you get hurt and find a nice guy who will treat you right.
2006-11-29 05:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by dragontears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're not sure, you're not sure ... you might just lose him as he might think he's waisting his time with a girl that just teases him ... again, trust your instincts, do whatever is best for you, if you're having this doubts is because you don't really love him.
2006-11-29 05:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by Splishy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋