hey i need some help..theres this guy and he said he really likes me, but he wasn't looking for a girlfriend....then we went away for the weekend (with our families coz they are friends) and we kissed..now e visits me about 3 times a week....we kiss and he is always either holding my hand or has his arm around me, touching me in some way (non sexual) and every so often he hints that i am his girlfriend but he hasn't asked me out or anthing.
am i his girlfriend or are we basicaly friends with benefits??? plz help!!
2006-11-28 21:02:15 · 5 answers · asked by ticklish101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants you to settle for him on HIS terms. He is testing the value you put on your own choices. He is taking liberties and seeing if he can stimulate your trust enough to invade it. Do not acknowledge his hints. If he were a real upstanding guy, he would not play the hinting game. He seems to be the friend with benefits.....not you! Wake up and respect yourself. Tell him your standards about being anyone's girl. Make him work for your hand or holding. He needs to show more respect first. Why should guys always state what they are not looking for first? If that is the way he feels, abide by it. Don't be one.
2006-11-28 21:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may be just working himself up to placing you in the girlfriend category. Give him a little time (couple weeks) then talk to him about it. Don't let it go any further than kissing until you;re at LEAST in a committed relationship,
2006-11-29 05:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by Dark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u actually want to be the girlfriend of him u can be. but before every thing pls think about ur family. will they accept it? anyway be carefull. if u r kissing its ok. but don't have sexual relationship with him. take care of ur self
2006-11-29 05:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by visaka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not nice to hear that coz your giving him a chnce to kiss you but you don't know anything about his purpose o don't cry honey , he is using you till he get satisfied then ba-bye..
2006-11-29 05:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by eternity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he say that you are girlfriend what is your problem . i feel you want some thing else.
2006-11-29 05:06:53 · answer #5 · answered by ganesh p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋