I was raised with people around me who were always talking 'negatively'. They never seemed to have anything 'good' to say about someone else. How does one, who was raised this way, remove that obstacle in their life, when it's been something that was so common and almost 'normal'? What ways would help me get over this, when the first thing that comes to mind, is something negative? I can be happy, and content with where I'm at, but, I also have this 'dark' side of me that continues to harbor such bitter thoughts, and I can't seem to stay 'positive' long enough to move past that 'negativity'...
2006-11-28 19:20:50 · 5 answers · asked by argamedius 3 in Health ➔ Other - Health
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2006-11-28 19:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
You're already on the road to recovery because you recognize the problem and the reason for the problem- your family. Conditioning would be the only way to deal with the problem and you are in tune to it already-- when you think, hear yourself or getting ready to say something negative- retract- think it through and you will change that negativity into a positive feedback. It is a second thought process so you have to constantly second think what you are about to say, but you can program yourself and then after time, it will come natural to you because you will rise above it. If you have trouble coping with this negativity, it wouldnt hurt to get some counseling to get you started on the right path. Good luck to you.
2006-11-28 19:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by mac 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Hi there! Negativity is all around and we can become victims of it really fast. Your family members are actually innocent people who were poorly influenced by modeling others behavior or merely by the events we live through and witness. Start with very small steps as they are much easier to master. Whenever you can be calm, try to think about just one good thing you accomplished or did that day and think how you attained that positive response from your efforts. I always get a boost by just being anti angry. Keep goals simple simple simple. I smile at people when I pass them and watching the reactions on their faces make me feel like a better person. Many of them are down or lonely and feel invisible. If you manage to brighten a moment for just one person (and you will) you eventually get addicted to presenting a more personable and friendly demeanor. This spreads more sunshine into your life. Try it!
2006-11-28 19:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by PZ 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
its as easy to get into a positive frame of mind as it is to get into a negative one theres a bright side to everything and its easy to be content when you tell yourself that being negative will only make things worse for you and people close to you
it seems hard at first to do this but if you do after a while you will be doing it without even noticing
good luck
2006-11-28 19:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Bazil 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
make an effort to say something great about everybody.
you can disagree, of course, when people are being negative. say "well maybe they aren't a dumbass, it's just that they didn't get a chance to learn that ..." or saying "well, i'm sure their intentions are good, you just don't know the whole story."
and if you are hanging around people you can't ever disagree with, then i can see why you're bummed out.
2006-11-28 19:25:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋