im new to 'dating', ive only been in one relationship (4 years - split up 4 months ago) iv'e now been dating this new girl naw for 5 weeks, spent the whole of last weekend with her and stuff, we send about 20 txts a day.. she seems keen, where do i go from here, do i just continue, meeting her spending time together..? when do you become a couple..!?
i met her firends at the weekend, they adressed me as #####'s fella, does this mean she sees me as her B/F maybe?
2006-11-28 19:11:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd take that as a yes. If you aren't sure, it is a sign that you need to spend more time with her to get to know her more and feel more comfortable with the relationship. Alot of people make the mistake of getting to involved with a new person after a break-up when on the "re-bound". Don't get too drawn in to this girl if you aren't ready. It sounds like you are happy with everything but hopefully you both can see eye2eye on things and the relationship works out.
When my hubby and I met, he wanted to date me but I was in a recent break-up and I wouldn't let him right away, so I wasn't using him as a re-bound boyfriend. After 5 months of being single but close friends with him, we finally officially dated and things went up from there!! Good luck for both of you! I think you'll know what is the right thing to do.
2006-11-28 19:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by onecharliecat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her how she feels and if she is ready to move forward with the relationship. 5 weeks is not a long time, but if it seems worth it go for it.
my fiance and i met at krystals in a small town in GA. we were friends at first i thought he was kind of immature. (he is 17 and i am about to be 19) we were 18 and 16 at the time. i had just turned 18 and i switched shifts. thought it would put me amongst other "adults" i got called in to work their shift one dy and we clicked. we went to see that larry the cable guy movie the next day and look at us now....just a few months down the road and we will be married next month so...just ask her
2006-11-28 19:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by chantal h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like things are going great between you two. You two spend a lot of time together, you've been on dates with her. From what you say, it sounds like you really like her why not give it a try? Ask her out!
2006-11-28 19:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by MzCaRaMeL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am quite old fashioned when it comes to guys and dating...so my advice is coming from a girl who likes men to be gentlemanly :) I say if you like her (really, as in you want her to be your girlfriend) ask her officially! take her out for dinner or something and say , I really like you, i'm enjoying spending time with you and I'd like to spend more time getting to know you...I'd like to ask you out officially, will you be my girlfriend (kind of thing). this is just my romantic opiniont :) it avoids confusion and then you both know where you stand! all the best
2006-11-28 19:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 txts a day, I can't stand it, but if it's fine for you why not continue, it depends on what you think as she seems keen, go with your heart
2006-11-28 19:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by FairGround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so ,if she spends alot of time with you it means she considers you more than a friend ..Just continue and find out if she's the right one then go for the next step!
2006-11-28 19:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if is just for fun, go for it and ask her, but if u are serious about it, take it easy, go slow, be her friend, her very good frien, thats how we started with my GF, now we love each other til dead, and we are going to get marry soon : ) ,she's my best friend...
2006-11-28 19:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by rage_adicction 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What her freinds say does not matters, if she loves you and you love her, go ahead.
2006-11-28 19:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by loveboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she likes you and she wants you to be her boyfriend or she just want hanging out with you..
2006-11-28 19:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by nanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS like you love her.lol
2006-11-28 19:14:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋