i have been with this guy for like 2 years. he is not showing any emotion or commitment to the relationship.
he hasnt even kissed me yet?
well except for on the cheek
he lives in our house(in a different room)
my instinct says he is with another girl coz he is always home late and i have often seen him out the window hugging girls goodbye!!
wat 2 do?
2006-11-28 19:06:47 · 18 answers · asked by funny.bones 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-28 19:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by cruiseman111111 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the answer is simple, the signs are there yet you still ask what to do? girl, i know that you are smarter than this! dump his sorry ass and move on! i mean if your guts tell you that he is cheating there is a huge possibility that he is, he hugs other girls when he should be with you and shows little or no affection towards you or the relationship. if you keep him you are wasting even more of your life with this loser, time that you cannot get back so jst move on! plus he comes home late and does not kiss you on the lips after 2 years? what the heck is wrong with this picture? everything! this guy is showing signs of distancing himself away from you so you should do the same and say "adios" and a guy who cannot show any committment after 2 years is a player! my bf and i kissed on our 2nd date or something like that and that was 16 months ago for us! you need to move on and focus on yourself and find yourself someone who treats you good and shows emotion and wants something out of the relationship and will not cheat on you!i hope that helped
2006-11-28 19:16:47 · answer #2 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One explanition is that he is waiting for you to making the first real kissing move. And if you're pretty, and he's waited two years in the prime of his heterosexuality, then..................................... He is the coolest guy in the world, and simply respects you too much to make the first move.
Answer 1. Keep him.
Second explanation. He's a homosexual in the closet, but still lives with you because he likes you as friend.
Answer 2. A friend that sticks by you like that might be a good thing to keep around for a while until you find a real man.
2006-11-28 19:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he's older than you, if you have to watch from the sidelines while he goes out.
Since he hasnt made a move for you in 2 years??? He is either a very holy man.
Or he doesn't want to get your parents mad at him to throw him out.
And it would be prudent for you not to ask him to do anything, however distance yourself because its just wrong.
2006-11-28 19:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he hug you often? is he always like that with all girls when saying goodbye? ( hugging) if not then you should leave him
2006-11-28 19:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by iris 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry! to tell you this. He doesn't have any feelings for you exept a normal friendship. So you have to move on.
2006-11-28 21:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What relationship, Does not seem like you have one ! Step off !
2006-11-28 19:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by g_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Daniel, get off the internet and get back to work. oooooooeoeeeeooo
2006-11-28 20:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Logic tells you to leave him.
Feeling says keep him.
Who do you listen to?
2006-11-28 19:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by ideaquest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him..
Move on..
Why is he living in your house ?
2006-11-28 19:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋