I met this girl a few weeks ago, and we are both seniors in high school, and we both have ambitions and goals for college. I thought at first that this girl was just a girl to have fun with, but after talking, and her doing things that truly find unique in a girl, i cant help but feel something more for her. I can tell she is cares for me, but i think i might actualy want this girl to be my girlfriend. I texted her last night that i truly liked her for her and explained to her how much i admired certain atributes from her and i got no reply back. and se usualy calls me everynight, and today i never got that. I ask now to help me plan my next move, and i understand it is impossible for u guys to tell me how she feels, but is there ne one with some experience with this situation. I cant believe i am asking this to random people, but hey when ur confused, and i have these feelings, i will take advice from ne one.
2006-11-28 18:32:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
high school sucks
2006-11-28 18:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by stu k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
could be a couple of things . . .
sometimes it is not easy to accept or believe the things someone tells us. especially if they are good things. she might be scared.
or . . . maybe she was thinking the same thing you were - just someone to have fun with. because of that, maybe she doesn't want to text or call you back so she doesn't give you the wrong idea.
or . . . maybe something came up. if she is a senior in high school, her parents might have taken her phone, or something . . .
give her a little bit longer. if she doesn't contact you in a couple more days, rethink the relationship.
2006-11-29 02:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by Oshiri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first piece of advice, don't fret. Sometimes things just happen that will keep her from responding to you. Don't make assumptions about things because they can (and often times will) make you do things that can ruin a budding relationship. Instead of texting her, try talking to her in person. If you really do like this girl, go out of your way to let her know that you feel that way and show her how special she really is to you. Look, just because she didn't call you tonight doesn't mean she doesn't like you any more. Oh, and keep an optimistic attitude, pessimism will only serve to bring you down.
2006-11-29 02:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend just remember that u cant rush anything u r both about to go to college and unless u plan to stay near each other at the same college then it may be wise to wait on a relationship till after ur at college
2006-11-29 02:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by tainted_soul6000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her face to face, because she may be as nervous as you.
ask her if she'd like to be in a relationship with you, maybe bring her a flower.
from there the ball's in her court.
2006-11-29 02:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by ladyjeansntee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u made a mistaken in telling her u like her.
2006-11-29 02:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋