A lot of women think if they can attract a man sexually they will be able to attract him also emotionally, so what's the truth about this?
2006-11-28 18:25:14 · 23 answers · asked by josie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some of the men I know ARE!!
But not all!
Some men act as if that is the primary thing on their mind, but most men are not like that. Even the nice guys might be drawn to an attractive woman, but not necessarily will they be thinking about sex,
Decent guys like a woman who can be a partner, a sweetheart, someone they can have intelligent conversation with ....
2006-11-28 18:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by mindbender - seeker of truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's bull*shi*t, cause i can tell you right now, out of all the women i've been with, I can't get off unless I love them. Out of the ones i messed with, i had a HORRIBLE time tryin to finish or get anything out of it cause..i wasn't really in love with them..nor did they have any love for me. My fiance is the ONLY one who has made me finish..early...hard...and has been the freakin BEST sex partner i've ever had. And we didn't do it til like weeks into the relationship....I fell in love with her when i knew the love was mutual, by our connection and intimacy...by the fact that we got along so well, and the fact that i could be myself with her without her lookin for every little problem in me, complaining about what a man should be, why i dont' do this or that..we just CHILLED...and enjoyed each other's personality. That's it.
So for a lot of women they THINK it's because of sex because they date the sleaze that only WANT sex....you dig in trash you're gonna get....TRASH. There are those who don't love for the sake of sex, that's just a luxury. Of course sex is an addiction, but we would rather have a good friend or someone to connect with as far as a long-term relationship rather than some pornstar ho.
2006-11-28 18:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,it doesn't,usually women that try to attract men sexually would end up in vast because the relationship have no attachment at all.Emotion and sex are related but sex are not emotion.
2006-11-28 18:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
=( I hate this misconception! Men aren't out just for sex... We can be emotionally attached to someone and fall in love, just like woman... It is true that we have a stronger sexual drive (Lol), but that doesn't mean that just if a woman sexually attracts us we would fall in love with them. Really think about that question... I think you'd be able to figure out the answer.
2006-11-28 18:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are simple and very visual creatures. They see, they like, they want to get with you. That's instinct. Woman's instinct is understandably more complex, as they are attracted to men they feel can provide for offspring (strong, powerful) and will stick around long enough to accomplish that (loyal). Women do like sex, but it is not their primary motivation. Men do like familiarity and comfort and emotional connection, especially being taken care of (fed, touched), but it is not their primary motivation either. How much primal instinct drives an individual is just that, individual.
So to answer your question, yes, men, to more or lessor degrees, will first be attracted to a woman physically, but women cannot keep a man only with physical attraction/sex. His instinct is to continue to "share his seed" for the survival of the species, so she better have other things to offer, like real friendship and respect, and a good sense of humor. On the flip, if you give him all of that, but never sex, good luck keeping him.
2006-11-28 18:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by Kaelen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Almost all guys will tell you that eventually in a relationship its about compatibility. It does matter about sex in the beginning, but if he can't understand where she's coming from intellectually or emotionally, he will get out of the relationship FAST. Guys are dumb about a lot of things, but even we know when a girl is not a right match for our personality.
2006-11-28 18:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by kaputt_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man is just sexually attracted to a woman, he wants to have sex with the woman. The object is "sex" itself. Not the woman. It goes like, they can have sex with anyone they find physically attractive. It doesn't matter who she is.
When a man is emotionally attracted to a woman, the object is the woman herself. Attraction may include sexual attraction later, but the trigger is not the "animalistic instinct", but the connection he feels with her.
2006-11-28 18:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by naive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty close to the truth. What they forget is that some guys have a bigger head(brain). This is kind of like the chicken and the egg. Men are horny and most of the time you try to make us that way. I think it is a basic instinct. I hit you with a club, because you turned me on.Kinda gives a new meaning to: I'll meet you at the club.
2006-11-28 18:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by solapine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not alone , some are driven by Power ,others by alcohol or drugs but there are some of us who are driven by Honesty faithfulness , and the thought of having someone to grow old with....as for the sex we do like that too.
2006-11-28 18:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since women are more mature than men, shouldn't you be mature enough to know how silly it is to think that men are driven by sex alone? Sex didn't drive men to build Atomic power, airplanes, generators, etc.
2006-11-28 18:28:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋