There's a guy I've liked for a longtime now and many say he likes me too. A few months ago, I told him I liked him and I wanted to be friends, he completely misunderstood and said he's not ready for a gf because he's shy, which is completely irrelevant. Anyways, all was good after that and over the summer we would chat on msn everyday until morning. But once school started we had a fall out and we haven't chatted since yesterday when I attempted to break the awkward silence between us. I sent him an email which he ignored, saying it's been awhile and it'd be cool to start chatting again. Then on msn, we had a 30 second convo. I asked how he was and he asked me how I was then he started ignoring me again. It's not the first time he's done this and I'm tired of putting up with it. Should I give him the silent treatment and see how he likes it? Would he even care? What do I do? I really miss talking to him.
2006-11-28 18:22:08 · 13 answers · asked by Accidentally in Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go about your business. If you see him smile and go on. If he doesn't return the gesture, next time you see him just go on.
If he is not into you don't try to press the issue. That make people want to label you and that is not good for you in the long run.
Just go on and get started with another chapter in your life cause that one seems finished.
2006-11-28 18:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are strange, sometime the best way to get there attention is to ignore then and act like you couldn't care less. It may also help to let him see you flirting with someone else.
2006-11-28 18:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is make an effort to talk to him. If he does not respond you have two choices..try again or give up and find new chat buddies.
2006-11-28 18:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would move on girl life is to short to wait around on a guy who wants to be a jerk...just move on if he likes u he will start the conversation again if not its his lost....and just a little info for the future...if a guy says hes shy thats usually bs....thats an easier way of saying im not interested in u......
2006-11-28 18:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by sweetlady38237 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Return him in the same
2006-11-28 18:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gather courage and ignore him.if he doesnt come back,move on.
2006-11-28 18:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by Ben S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he isn't interested in you.
leave him alone
if he wants to talk to you he will contact you.
in the meantime go on with your life..it makes you more appealing
2006-11-28 18:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by debbie2243 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just give him some space. don't think about him too much. he would eventually talk to you when he is ready.
2006-11-28 18:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by Airam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop crying and find someone else.. i mean I am trying to sound hard to make you strong. oh well if he wants to be a jerk let him and move on honey!!!
2006-11-28 18:25:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Put a heating pad on your shoulder, that will warm it up.
2006-11-28 18:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋